A request for CD's who's wives are involved :)

Jennifer · Post by **Jennifer** » Mon Apr 26, 2010 9:17 am

Okay I'll fess up to having a French Maid's dress and doing household chores in it. The only problem is I am not allowed to wear high heels on the hardwood floors and flats don't go well with it.

Wendae · Post by **Wendae** » Mon Apr 26, 2010 10:07 am

She wants nothing to do with Susan and no matter how many times I try and approach her on the subject in many different ways nothing is going to change.

Susan you aren't alone, I've been trying off and on for 45 years. When I see the distress it causes her I back off. It's tough I know.

Letitia_Jolie_GG · Post by **Letitia_Jolie_GG** » Fri May 21, 2010 9:58 am

Jennifer wrote:Okay I'll fess up to having a French Maid's dress and doing household chores in it. The only problem is I am not allowed to wear high heels on the hardwood floors and flats don't go well with it.

How about marabou slippers with a small heel?

Jennifer · Post by **Jennifer** » Sat May 22, 2010 9:56 am

Letitia_Jolie_SO wrote:
How about marabou slippers with a small heel?

Now that's an option that just might work. I like the way you think.

Susan · Post by **Susan** » Sat May 22, 2010 10:04 am

what's marabou slippers????? sounds like something that should get the animal rights people up in arms

Post by **DonnaT** » Sat May 22, 2010 1:29 pm

Marabou slippers are slippers with heels, so, no, they wouldn't work.

Letitia_Jolie_GG · Post by **Letitia_Jolie_GG** » Sat May 22, 2010 3:29 pm

Some of them have quite small and stable heels... you may find a pair that could work

Patti D · Post by **Patti D** » Sun Jul 04, 2010 5:39 pm

Work together, let your love answer your questions.

Joan · Post by **Joan** » Tue Aug 31, 2010 4:34 pm

Since we first got married my wife has known of my CD activity. Although she does not condone my passion she has been very good about it. I CD in lingerie in the house every evening and to bed wit her. She will stroke me or let me make love to her whilst CD.

Although my wife knows I fully CD she will only tolerate me wearing lingerie with her. I think this is OK, very lucky.

Joan

Andrea Elise · Post by **Andrea Elise** » Wed Sep 01, 2010 4:26 am

I never expected my SO to accept me but she does.

She now understands why I acted as I did in the past. Since coming out to her, there is no more secretive behavior on my part and... she thinks that it is amazing that I really do know what pleases her.

In that respect, we have become much closer. I think it has made our relationship much better and she has said the same.

Andrea

Joan · Post by **Joan** » Sat Sep 04, 2010 4:28 pm

My wife has been very good about my CD activity throughout our married life e.g. shopping for lingerie for me, love making whilst both of us are attired in similar lingerie, etc.

It has kept us very close throughout our marriage, although these days she is tolerant of my activity rather than condoning it. She is still very good with me, I CD about the house every evening and we both sleep together nightly in lingerie.

Joan

Georgia(SO) · Post by **Georgia(SO)** » Sun Sep 12, 2010 12:45 am

Letitia_Jolie_SO - you mentioned considering gender studies as a master's thesis in socio. Interesting idea - but I would caution you to stay away from *transgender* issues as a topic unless you and your sweetie have been together a long time. Why? because nothing kills the fun of relationship like analyzing it too much. Actually, I am being serious. Nobody wants to be analyzed by their sweetie, nobody needs to spend a master's thesis worth of time *studying* their sweetheart. Thirdly, it's hard to be scientific and objective when you are emotionally involved with the subject. No matter what the subject is...

If, however, ya'll have been together a long time, then your relationship should be able to stand that much scrutiny! And what a view you would bring to it...

good luck
-g(so)

Kittie · Post by **Kittie** » Sun Sep 12, 2010 1:51 am

Joan wrote:My wife has been very good about my CD activity throughout our married life e.g. shopping for lingerie for me, love making whilst both of us are attired in similar lingerie, etc.

It has kept us very close throughout our marriage, although these days she is tolerant of my activity rather than condoning it. She is still very good with me, I CD about the house every evening and we both sleep together nightly in lingerie.

Joan

My wife is in exactly the same situation and I exactly as you say "I CD about the house every evening and we both sleep together nightly in lingerie."

Nancy A · Post by **Nancy A** » Tue Nov 23, 2010 12:34 am

I am very fortunate to have a wife who supports me! I told her early on in our dating (after two previous failed relationships). Now I am entering a new phase in my CD life,and she is very helpful--she bought me a purse and some tops & tights to help hide my mannish figure.

We may never go public--but that is ok, because she LOVES to shop, and I have learned to love it too!

In truth--it has helped our marriage. She is attracted to MTF CD's, so it has been a blessing to our relationship--but it's sometimes hard because I get so excited/scared by what I am feeling. Honesty is the key!

Davita · Post by **Davita** » Thu Nov 25, 2010 9:37 pm

I don't know if it's improved, but if I couldn't get girl time, I could be a real butt. Sooooo maybe it got better when I could be more of myself.

Not sure that's what you wanted to hear

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