Yelled and scream at

Carol Ann · Post by **Carol Ann** » Wed Jul 11, 2007 2:39 pm

Gee I don't know where to start, it was a nice morning and the wife and I picked about I don't know how many greenbeans ( 2 5gal. buckets full). So I am dressed as usual nothing fancy ( see my new photo) and i am washing them off and as I was draining them I dropped a few on the floor. Oh my gosh the manure hit the fan, all I done was bend down and pick them up. I was yelled at and told that is NOT the way to bend over to pick something up.

Not to hurt any GG feelings but if I don't know any better it was that time of month.

Crap I was only dressed simple and seen no reason for her to snap at me like she done. You know I think the wife is getting fed up with Carol Ann. Why I have no idea as she has never said a word other then " if your going to do it, do it proper).

So a long story short we will have a little talk and I will have to figure what is wrong. My God I have it so good I don't want to lose it. Oh by the way we put the greenbeans off uptil tomorrow.

Post by **DonnaT** » Wed Jul 11, 2007 9:44 pm

Hope it's not serious, Carol.

Jenney Love · Post by **Jenney Love** » Thu Jul 12, 2007 12:05 pm

Was she afriad you where going to hurt your back, bending the wrong way?

Carol Ann · Post by **Carol Ann** » Thu Jul 12, 2007 1:06 pm

We had our little talk today while we were canning green beans. Seems yesterday was just a very bad hair day and the wife said she was sorry for yelling at me. You know when you fight really bad back pain it can get a person grumpy. Anyway I took the day off from dressing just to make her feel better and told her when she gets up from her nap I would take her into town for one of those soft ice creams they dip in hot chocolate.

Virginia · Post by **Virginia** » Thu Jul 12, 2007 8:45 pm

Carol Ann, It could have been just what you alluded to. Usually, the operative word being "usually" girls don't bend over, they bend their knees and, dare I say, squat, to pick things up. You know what I mean!

Fortunately or unfortunately as the case may be, you have brought to mind a couple of occassions recently when I was out, aaaaahhhhh "en drab" and something fell on the floor in a store, once in Wally-World and once at CVS and I stooped to pick up the item and felt some eyes on me, but I did not think anything about it until now that you mention your experience.

Perhaps your SO, subconsciously, was just being a "good mother" and attempting to teach her daughter how to present like a lady and lady's don't bend over, they stoop/squat ladylike!

Love ya,
Virginia

Ann Stef · Post by **Ann Stef** » Mon Jul 07, 2008 4:58 pm

Occasionally my wife complains about "loosing her husband". I thendress male for a day to assure her that a stud is still around.

Sandi_W (SO) · Post by **Sandi_W (SO)** » Sun Dec 14, 2008 10:29 am

When my hubby told me that he was a CD, one of my initial reactions was that I was losing my husband. I thought he would leave me. This forum has already helped me so much. For the first time in my life I feel that things I'm feeling are normal. Thank you everyone that's willing to share such personal things.

Elizabeth · Post by **Elizabeth** » Sun Dec 14, 2008 7:58 pm

Sandi,

We are here for the support of the SO's just as much as the crossdressers. We know there is comfort in knowing one is not alone in a situation. That others have confronted these situations and worked through them. I have been helped so much here, I don't have words to say how I feel.

But I am very glad to hear that you have benefited from being here. I hope that continues.

Love always,
Elizabeth

Post by **KimberlyS** » Sun Dec 14, 2008 9:16 pm

Carol, I am glad you got things worked out quickly. We all have bad grump days.