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Gee I don't know where to start, it was a nice morning and the wife and I picked about I don't know how many greenbeans ( 2 5gal. buckets full). So I am dressed as usual nothing fancy ( see my new photo) and i am washing them off and as I was draining them I dropped a few on the floor. Oh my gosh the manure hit the fan, all I done was bend down and pick them up. I was yelled at and told that is NOT the way to bend over to pick something up.

Not to hurt any GG feelings but if I don't know any better it was that time of month.

Crap I was only dressed simple and seen no reason for her to snap at me like she done. You know I think the wife is getting fed up with Carol Ann. Why I have no idea as she has never said a word other then " if your going to do it, do it proper).

So a long story short we will have a little talk and I will have to figure what is wrong. My God I have it so good I don't want to lose it. Oh by the way we put the greenbeans off uptil tomorrow.

Hope it's not serious, Carol.

Was she afriad you where going to hurt your back, bending the wrong way?

We had our little talk today while we were canning green beans. Seems yesterday was just a very bad hair day and the wife said she was sorry for yelling at me. You know when you fight really bad back pain it can get a person grumpy. Anyway I took the day off from dressing just to make her feel better and told her when she gets up from her nap I would take her into town for one of those soft ice creams they dip in hot chocolate.

Carol Ann, It could have been just what you alluded to. Usually, the operative word being "usually" girls don't bend over, they bend their knees and, dare I say, squat, to pick things up. You know what I mean!

Fortunately or unfortunately as the case may be, you have brought to mind a couple of occassions recently when I was out, aaaaahhhhh "en drab" and something fell on the floor in a store, once in Wally-World and once at CVS and I stooped to pick up the item and felt some eyes on me, but I did not think anything about it until now that you mention your experience.

Perhaps your SO, subconsciously, was just being a "good mother" and attempting to teach her daughter how to present like a lady and lady's don't bend over, they stoop/squat ladylike!

Love ya,
Virginia

Occasionally my wife complains about "loosing her husband". I thendress male for a day to assure her that a stud is still around.

When my hubby told me that he was a CD, one of my initial reactions was that I was losing my husband. I thought he would leave me. This forum has already helped me so much. For the first time in my life I feel that things I'm feeling are normal. Thank you everyone that's willing to share such personal things.

Sandi,

We are here for the support of the SO's just as much as the crossdressers. We know there is comfort in knowing one is not alone in a situation. That others have confronted these situations and worked through them. I have been helped so much here, I don't have words to say how I feel.

But I am very glad to hear that you have benefited from being here. I hope that continues.

Love always,
Elizabeth

Carol, I am glad you got things worked out quickly. We all have bad grump days.