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...Your kidding right?!?

Posted: Fri Sep 21, 2007 11:13 pm
by Eureka
So as some of you know I got a gf a lil while ago, and like all my past gfs I waited til the time was right and told her Im TG...soooo what happens? I hear "oh, geez, I don't know how to say this...Jei Ke (im just using my chinese name for effect, lol) I dont think I can handle this pressure, but I totally accept it, and still want to be friends!"
Why does the song "another one bites the dust" come to mind? it's like I'm moving down a hit list, though my past relationships didnt end cause Im TG, but still, i mean, geez...

Posted: Fri Sep 21, 2007 11:20 pm
by DonnaT
Sorry to hear that. But you are doing the right thing, and have plenty of time to develope a meaningful relationship with a more accepting GF.

Posted: Sat Sep 22, 2007 2:44 am
by Anita
Definitely doing the right thing, Eureka, but it's a tough row to hoe. My relationship days were over before I had to deal with TG issues, so I never had to go through this. From everything I've read on here and other places, though, you pay a big price for being tempted not to tell because of the "This one is wonderful! " set-up. As in, this person is so wonderful that I don't want to miss being with them--so I'll just reform, and get rid of all my stuff, and it'll all work out...

Keep on your current path, Eureka, if you can.