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[Mattie]

Hello everyone. I am Mattie. I am probably a lot like all of you, but it still makes me nervous to type this out in the open. I dressed and liked being in female clothing a long time ago. I am very much closeted, however I recently added several pieces to my set to help me look more realistic as a female. I also just recently learned to "tuck", although without knowing I had used the same methods many years ago. With all that said, I also like to be my masculine self at times, although I still will have boy shorts on!! I am happy in what I am and enjoy every day! Thanks for letting me be a part of this site. I look forward to learning more and meeting new people like me.

[Requal Jo]

Hi Mattie and welcome to this happy, friendly and supportive Haven.

I understand what you about being a closet dresser and look forward to hearing more from you as you post your messages.

[Gina L.]

Hi Mattie and welcome, there are lots of girls like you here so don't be shy and maybe you will join us in the chat room where you can have fun and learn a lot about yourself at the same time.

[Anthony Simon]

Welcome, Mattie.

[SilverLady(SO)]

Hi, Mattie, and welcome to the Haven!


- SL

[Virginia]

Hi Mattie,

We look forward to your sharing with us!

V

[DonnaT]

Hi Mattie, aboard.

[Robyn]

Hi Mattie

Nothing wrong with "boy mode". I am a man who presents as a woman part time.

[Martina Hall]

Welcome, Mattie, from another part-timer.

[Domonique]

Hi Mattie. .

[Mattie]

Thanks everyone. Martina and Robyn - do you find yourselves being very comfortable in both worlds? Alone, at home, I usually dress in a cross between both worlds. Alone at home for longer periods, I usually dress pretty much all femme as the time gets longer. Out, I dress as a male. I am asking as I am curious to see if there are others like me.

[Requal Jo]

Yes Mattie there are persons such as you out there. I too am a private dresser and Requal will make an appearance at any time she can: while all other time she is in male mode.

[Rikki]

Welcome, Mattie!

Your thoughts parallel mine. I only dress at home, and sadly only when I'm alone. Being Rikki out and about in my world would be too distracting and embarrassing for my wife and family as well as destroying my business and reputation.

So I enjoy my boy-side in the "daylight" and girlie/frilly side in private.

You will enjoy this place so much. Great people to chat and share thoughts with about our feelings, needs and desires. It's so comforting to have the "Haven" and know we're not alone.

All the best,
Rikki