Crossdressers-Haven.com

Sinjoy(SO) · Post by **Sinjoy(SO)** » Mon Feb 28, 2005 8:54 am

this is my first time on a message board so please be forgiving...

where do I start... well, how about the begining... my husband has resently started to paint his nails, in clear coat, which I bought for him. I'm trying to be supportive, I know most crossdressers are NOT gay but I had to ask, he is not. I told him if he wated to wear womans cloths, that I would buy them for him if he wants. He is unsure. he is a late bloomer and has asked me not to tell any one, I haven't but I could use a little support. He found this site for me. Thank you!!! It is nice to know there is place like this, somewhere safe, and private to help me well, us through this. I told him that I love him, and this is just a part of him, so we can do it toghether.

Sinjoy

Pauline · Post by **Pauline** » Mon Feb 28, 2005 9:10 am

sinjoy... may I be the first to

you to the forum, all our ladies GG and cdrs are all supportive.. we are like an extended family.. so kick off your shoes and relax, i hope your stay & your (so's) stay is long, imformtative and relaxing.

Pauline

Post by **DonnaT** » Mon Feb 28, 2005 9:33 am

Welcome Sinjoy!

I commend you on your desire to be supportive, to learn more, and to want to "do it together." Participation is a big help to some of us. Especially if we can do things together to make it fun for us both.

Virginia · Post by **Virginia** » Mon Feb 28, 2005 10:21 am

I want to add my welcome as well. The fact that you are here lends so much credence to your desire to protect your relationship. I think that you will find the other SO's here very supportive and can help you travel this new road. Evidence supports the fact that most of us crossdressers are hetrosexual, that we are above average in intelligence and that once a crossdresser, always a crossdresser - it ain't going away. Some repress it or supress it but once a person confirms in their own mind that they have this "gift" it is theirs for the rest of their lives! How they choose
to live with it varies from individual to individual.
I want to wish you all the good fortunate in dealing with this and hopefully you and your SO will take advantage of the folks here - I can tell you that they have helped me more than I could ever repay!!!
Virginia

Wendy · Post by **Wendy** » Mon Feb 28, 2005 11:30 am

Welcome !

It sounds like your husband is still coming to terms with his CDing. The fact that you are so supportive will definitely help in him feeling more comfortable with his feminine side.

Best wishes !

Samantha Jane · Post by **Samantha Jane** » Mon Feb 28, 2005 4:39 pm

Welcome Sinjoy, I hope your visits to this site are as informative and comforting, as they have been for me in my time here.

You have chosen a excellent site for information and as little or as much support as you wish.

Charlotte

Mrs. Missy(SO) · Post by **Mrs. Missy(SO)** » Mon Feb 28, 2005 9:04 pm

Welcome sinjoy,

It is so nice that your husband found this site for you! Your love for each other will be a definite asset in this situation. I think you will feel comfortable here. My husband and I are both on this forum. We tend to do a lot of lurking, but come out of the shadows every now and then.

We know you will learn a lot from the very knowledgeable people here. They are very supportive and caring.

Hugs to you and your husband!

Mrs. Missy(SO)

Paige · Post by **Paige** » Mon Feb 28, 2005 10:08 pm

Welcome,

From a CD I want to welcome you here. This is really a very supportive forum for both CDs and their spouses. Ask any questions you want and be sure to post in the SO section. Thank you for being supportive to your husband. He needs it as much as you do. We are here for both of you.

Paige

Kyra · Post by **Kyra** » Tue Mar 01, 2005 9:12 pm

Hi and Welcome Sinjoy,
I'm glad you've found us.

I hope you find this site informative and useful to you. I'm sure we can help you to find the answers you seek.

Hugs,
Kyra

Anita · Post by **Anita** » Thu Mar 03, 2005 1:57 pm

Hi Sinjoy--
Welcome to this forum. I really do think it's the best place I've seen for both CDs and SOs to be on together. You can gain a lot here, and there is much information already in place.

Sandi · Post by **Sandi** » Sun Mar 06, 2005 6:21 pm

Sinjoy it so good to have you here.
hugs

Dixie Darling · Post by **Dixie Darling** » Wed Mar 09, 2005 10:54 am

Hello Sinjoy and welcome to the forum. You'll find a lot of support here and a lot of answers to the questions I'm sure you have.

My commendations to you for being open minded concerning your husband's crossdressing. That kind of attitude will go a long way in preserving, and even ENHANCING, the peace and happiness in your relationship.

Seeing as how you're relatively new to the crossdressing community, I offer you the information on my web site. A lot of your concerns and answers to many of your questions may be found there to help you. Plese feel free to visit and have a look around. You'll find it to be clean and with a lot of information for you AND your husband.

Dixie Darling -- http://www.geocities.com/senorita_cd