just saying HI

Ricky · Post by **Ricky** » Mon Dec 24, 2007 9:22 pm

from sheffield here

SilverLady(SO) · Post by **SilverLady(SO)** » Mon Dec 24, 2007 9:25 pm

Hi, Ricky, and welcome to the Forum!!

- SL

Ricky · Post by **Ricky** » Mon Dec 24, 2007 9:29 pm

thanks seems really pleasent place

Ricky · Post by **Ricky** » Mon Dec 24, 2007 9:37 pm

this seems very hard for me and i thought this would be the ideal place to start

i have friends that know i crossdress and they dont mind infact most people i know laugh with me about it so i dont find peoples behaviour very offensive

the problem i have is obviousley im male

i have a hard mans job and to most people at work i give out a hard image

i meet hundreds of people a week and have to be on the same wavelength

unfortunately the problem most affecting me is that i hate being male i absalutely hate it

i look at women and desire to be them

i live on my own and have done now for a few years ok i had the odd fling with women but nothing serious

can anybody tell me why i feel like this and why i feel so down hearted and almost suicidal "but wouldnt do it" over this

i crossdress but am sore at the sight of my huge hands and feet its just terrible

why cant i be a size 10 beautifull girl ?

Post by **DonnaT** » Mon Dec 24, 2007 10:24 pm

Hi Ricky,

to the forum.

Many of us are obviously male, and some are lucky enough to (nearly) pass.

So, you aren't alone. The whys and wherefores are hard to understand, but that's the nature of being transgendered. Having feeling that are hard to explain, but they are real.

We just have to learn to accept ourselves the way we are, or take measures to change.

Personally, I happen to accept myself.

Chloe · Post by **Chloe** » Tue Dec 25, 2007 10:49 pm

Ricky wrote:this seems very hard for me and i thought this would be the ideal place to start

i have friends that know i crossdress and they dont mind infact most people i know laugh with me about it so i dont find peoples behaviour very offensive

the problem i have is obviousley im male

i have a hard mans job and to most people at work i give out a hard image

i meet hundreds of people a week and have to be on the same wavelength

unfortunately the problem most affecting me is that i hate being male i absalutely hate it

i look at women and desire to be them

i live on my own and have done now for a few years ok i had the odd fling with women but nothing serious

can anybody tell me why i feel like this and why i feel so down hearted and almost suicidal "but wouldnt do it" over this

i crossdress but am sore at the sight of my huge hands and feet its just terrible

why cant i be a size 10 beautifull girl ?

Welcome Ricky

I'm still in my youth and new to crossdressing but I know how you feel. Best of luck to you.

Lucy Michelle · Post by **Lucy Michelle** » Thu Dec 27, 2007 12:15 am

Hello Ricky, a warm welcome to the forum, have fun many of us have had similar thoughts to yours