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Lacey
Miss Crystal Goddess
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Joined: Thu Oct 02, 2008 12:01 pm
Location: Ottawa,Ontario

Post by Lacey »

Thank all so very much for the support and warm welcome.
I identify as CD right now, and find myself in a city that seems to have no open community for girls like me. :(
I am in Ottawa , Ontario, Canada, . Which as you may know, is a very conservative city.
I have never been dressed out before, and am finding that now that I have come out to my GF, going out, will be the next logical step.
I am however having a hard time believing that a city that boasts a population of over 800,000 people, does not have a community of Trans or CD friendly spots. That are safe and not a gay bar.
I identify as being in a monogamous relationship, and we are not looking for a dating club or pick up joint. Just a safe , friendly environment, where I can be girly and free.
I am asking if any of my fellow travelers of this strange and pretty life we share, knows of local couples, or groups in my area, that would welcome a new CD and her SO, please send me a PM.

With love and Thanks: Lacey :)
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DonnaT
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Post by DonnaT »

Try Saturday nights at the Lookout Bar:

http://www.thelookoutbar.com/events.htm
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Lacey
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Location: Ottawa,Ontario

Post by Lacey »

Yes, I have thought of the Lookout . Thank you for the suggestion, I am going to go see how CD friendly it is this coming saturday, but I believe it is Drag and gay orientated , more then Hetro CD/Trans.
However, I have never had issues going to gay clubs in the past so that really isn't an issue. I think I am more concerned with the large amount of drugs and drinking that is frequent in that type of enviroment.
I am not a drinker, and do not poison myself with drugs.
We are looking more for a casual meet of other CD/Trans couples or girls.
Not a party.

I am starting find ways to find other CD/Trans folk in Ottawa. It seems that the site URnotalone, has many profiles for CD;s in Ottawa, but it wants me to put up a pic, b4 I can contact them.
Unfortunatly I do not have one, and believe it or not, I do not own a digital camera. I do however have a cam on the laptop, and if I can get good lighting and figure out how to actually take the pic and upload it, I might put one up.
TY again for the suggestion.
Kisses: Lacey:)
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DonnaT
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Post by DonnaT »

If it is anything like some of the gay clubs here, hetero CDs are welcome, especially if they have drag nights.

And meeting other interseting CDs at the club, of various ages, is usually possible, if one isn't too shy to strike up a conversation.

Good luck.
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Stephanie W
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Location: Ontario, Canada

Post by Stephanie W »

Hi Lacey and welcome to the forum. Nice to have another Ontarian join us. Glad to hear you have a supportive wife, so good luck to you both.

You may be surprised to know that Ottawa does indeed have a very active Trans community. You need look no further than: www.gendermosaic.ca
I have a lot of friends among the wonderful gals there and have enjoyed attending some of their events. They are a lot of fun and certainly very welcoming and supportive of everyone, so you should find what you're looking for. If you do make contact, tell Amanda I said hi.

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Anita
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Post by Anita »

Hi Lacey--
Love the title of your post! You'll soon be able to take off the training wheels, I'm sure. Welcome to the forum.
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CJ
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Post by CJ »

Hi Lacey,

I bid you a belated welcome to the forum. I think you'll enjoy the place and have fun making new friends. Feel free to explore.

Love,
CJ
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Lacey
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Location: Ottawa,Ontario

Post by Lacey »

well i finally went out for the first time, and even had my first few pics ever as Lacey taken. That is my first pic in my avatar.
What do you girls think?
:)
PM, me if you are close to Ottawa, and want to chat.
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CherryLynn
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Location: New Jersey

Post by CherryLynn »

hi Lacy

Welcome dear!. You are such a lucky girl - that yr SO is so understanding.
It wonderful that you can be honest with her- wish you both much happines. Being a lady is so much fun, I love it.
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Cherrylynn
Just starting to explore my feminine nature- am very shy meek and demure. Addicted to looking and acting ladylike. Still have so many questions about exactly who I am- have so many mixed emotions about my gender issues.
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Leeza
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Post by Leeza »

Lacy, welcome to a beautiful young lady. By the way keep walking in heels and if you do it right you will be able to run in them

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