Crossdressers-Haven.com

I am a 42 yr. old CD finally able to get home and change clothes. My SO not only understands but argues sizes and makes the appropriate purchases on birthday's and other occasions. I got real lucky with this one.

One EX-Lover tried to out me during the breakup. rough time and I wasn't ready to dance. Felt like paul after the garden. (that's obscure.)

An explanation of my name: sometimes I am my male name. I embodie it and all it is. When dressed I become confused about names and the nature of a name. Am I Janet the home body just doing the shopping and enjoying life, Alex the stripper and what it entails, an abigail the free spirt looking for a man to marry, or another not mentioned here. When I find the name that fits my outlook and view of life I'll be sure to let this forum know. For now I will partcipate and wait for the answer.

If I have offended anyone my apologies. It was not intended.

I am looking forward to continued growth and enlightenment.

Hi Aislin!

Beauty

hi Aislin and welcome

Hugzzzz,
Geena

Hi Aislin--
That's an interesting post, about names and personalities in there. Sometimes people ask me if having a femme self is like multiple personality, and I tell them no. Multiple personalities usually have no awareness of each other, in the classic examples, even though they use the same body.

I'm not aware of different femme personalities, but I do know that my one femme self seems to have a wide range of behavior available to her. Fascinating to watch what "she" comes up with, sometimes. To those friends who say, "Well, it's all just YOU", I don't disagree. But it's a "me" that I couldn't access before I knew "her." Strange what we need to do to trick the mind into releasing hidden information.

Oh, and welcome to the forum!
Anita

Hello Aislin,

Welcome to the Forum.

Offended? Heck no. I enjoyed reading your post. Please do more.

Hi Aislin,
Welcome to the forum. Hope you like the forum. Great post, BTW.

HUgs,
Kyra