Intro from Ohio
Posted: Thu Jul 17, 2008 8:12 am
Hello all.
I'm new to this board but not to crossdressing. I'm retired and we live on a farm, so we (usually!) have plenty of privacy. My wife is very supportive and likes to see me dressed femme although I am not passable (she really likes my beard and that's a concession I make for her.)
As a youngster, I did try on some of my mom's clothing, as a sexual turnon. That was all of my crossdressing for several decades. I know a lot of CDs started early and always had the urge or need. I wasn't in that category, possibly because I had no clue about crossdressing, or maybe because it was supressed. The Internet has been such a wonderful resource to understand that "I am not alone".
In my late 40's, I began to feel submissive urges and wanted to be treated "like a girl". When my 30+ year marriage was ending and I met my current wife, I was open about my needs and asked her to dominate me and to force feminize me. I now recognize that I wanted to be dressed but thought I had to be forced. Once she started that, I became more and more desireous of being feminine. (Although I have my normal ups and downs and sometimes I still feel that it must be stupid
) But usually once I get started, I feel very comfortable with femme clothes and light makeup.
My wife says that she has always seen me as having some very feminine traits. Even her adult children had commented on it. So perhaps I am truly "somewhere in between".
As a minimum, I always wear panties (she gave away my male underwear to her son a couple of years ago) and I usually wear a bra. I have very small natural boobs (wish they were bigger...I guess that's one of my feminine traits ). Around home and out on the farm, I usually dress feminine. When we go out in public, I don't try to pass (obviously) but often wear femme jeans, a flat bra, little earrings and maybe light makeup. We live in a rural midwest area, so this isn't the "big west coast city" where one sees more extreme things.
I'm glad to join the group.
Patti
I'm new to this board but not to crossdressing. I'm retired and we live on a farm, so we (usually!) have plenty of privacy. My wife is very supportive and likes to see me dressed femme although I am not passable (she really likes my beard and that's a concession I make for her.)
As a youngster, I did try on some of my mom's clothing, as a sexual turnon. That was all of my crossdressing for several decades. I know a lot of CDs started early and always had the urge or need. I wasn't in that category, possibly because I had no clue about crossdressing, or maybe because it was supressed. The Internet has been such a wonderful resource to understand that "I am not alone".
In my late 40's, I began to feel submissive urges and wanted to be treated "like a girl". When my 30+ year marriage was ending and I met my current wife, I was open about my needs and asked her to dominate me and to force feminize me. I now recognize that I wanted to be dressed but thought I had to be forced. Once she started that, I became more and more desireous of being feminine. (Although I have my normal ups and downs and sometimes I still feel that it must be stupid
) But usually once I get started, I feel very comfortable with femme clothes and light makeup.My wife says that she has always seen me as having some very feminine traits. Even her adult children had commented on it. So perhaps I am truly "somewhere in between".
As a minimum, I always wear panties (she gave away my male underwear to her son a couple of years ago) and I usually wear a bra. I have very small natural boobs (wish they were bigger...I guess that's one of my feminine traits
). Around home and out on the farm, I usually dress feminine. When we go out in public, I don't try to pass (obviously) but often wear femme jeans, a flat bra, little earrings and maybe light makeup. We live in a rural midwest area, so this isn't the "big west coast city" where one sees more extreme things.I'm glad to join the group.
Patti
. I can't profess to being a countrygirl, our family farm is all of 17 acres but we love it.
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