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Im new to all this still dont know what to think.My husband told me about 2 weeks ago about his cd ing.I found this forum to be very helpful in trying to understand but its hard for me.

Welcome to our little corner of the internet hon.

As far as difficulty in understanding this aspect of your husband, think of it this way, it's just another part of him, that he trusted you enough to tell, and you can do away with one more wall of secrecy in that he felt it needed to come down.

I wouldn't say my wife's totally understanding and supportive, but she tolerates it, and that's good enough for me.

Hi Lynn, to the forum.

I reckon it can be hard to understand. Heck, some CDs find it hard to understand after dealing with it for 10, 20, 30 years.

As long as one is open to learning, and their CDing SO doesn't push too fast, then things may become clearer.

Lynn, just take things slow and work through them together as a couple. Open communication is very important on both sides. And neither of you will have the answer to all of the questions right away. There is lots of good information here. Take what relates to you at the moment and leave the rest for now. And not all the information here will be relative to your situation or your husband. Each of us CDer is different in what we like and want to do. And what works for one couple will not work for another couple. I applaud you for seeking good information to help you both along the way. If your husband is not here, inviting him also to join may help the both of you work through things.

Again, the best thing is open communication on both sides. If your husband is not opening up and communicating with you please invite him here so we can kick his butt. Now is not the time for him to clam up.

Good luck in working through things.

kimberlys-cd
joe in a skirt

Hi Lynn,
Nice name as it's the same as my wifes. I know it's hard but my wife told me I am still the same man she married no matter what cloths I am wearing.
Welcome and look and you will find answers,

KimberlyS wrote:If your husband is not opening up and communicating with you please invite him here so we can kick his butt. Now is not the time for him to clam up.

Good luck in working through things.

kimberlys-cd
joe in a skirt

Hi Lynn
The CDs, GGs and SOs are wonderful people. welcome to the forum
Kay

Hi, Lynn, and welcome to the Forum . . . we're always happy to see more GG/SO's join us here!

Butt-kicking, a clue-by-four, or both, whichever one works best!!

We're looking forward to your participation!

- SL

Hi Lynn and I'm glad you decided to join us. You'll find this a very supportive environment here and I'm confident you'll find many of the answers you need as you try and make sense of it all. Not always easy I know, but there are a lot of great folks here you can lean on if you need to.

I should tell you though, we do like to have fun sometimes as a smile is always worth it's weight in gold! Good luck and don't hesitate to ask if you have any questions.

Stephanie

Hi Lynn,

Welcome to the forum! I hope you find some of the answers you're looking for here. Like some of my sisters have said here, taking things slow and steady and communication are key. I wish you both well on this leg of the journey.

Love,
CJ

Hello Lynn, welcome along to the forum

Hi Lynn, it's lovely to meet you. I'm sure you'll find it helpful here.

Welcome Lynn and my you find answers here. I think we are a friendly bunch who like to help when we can.

Leeza

Hi Lynn:

Welcom to the room and so happy to see you here. It is so nice to see the SO join.

There are a lot of people here that are so willing to help you, and i will be pleased to chat with you at any time

Denise

Thank you everyone.Everyone has been so nice, open,honest and very helpful to me over the past few weeks.Denise I have chatted with you a little bit and sat beside my husband(curridel)as he was chatting with you.You have been great to both of us thanks

Hi Lynn I hope you feel welcome here and I can just imagne how many questions you have. I think you are very smart to come here and have some of those questions come out in the open. I think you'll be supprise as to how many of the girls in the forum will help you and your hubby find your way. Diane B