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Hello. I'm new here to this forum. I'm not exactly a cross-dresser per se but I believe that men should be able to wear skirts, pantyhose, or whatever else they feel like if they want. I don't consider myself to be "manly" like most others my age(14). I'm not obsessed with sports, dominance, or anything like that. I also think women are discriminated against too much in life. Occasionally, I'll wear my sister's skirts when I'm alone in the house but that is it. My parents don't know about any of this and nor do I want to tell them. Sorry for my life story but I just wanted to introduce myself with some background info.

Hi Alexander, aboard.

Hello Alexander,

First off welcome, second one day you will get caught we all did. Didn't take my mother long before she knew I was wearing her cloths, your sister will figure it out one day also. Anyway

Hi, Alexander, and welcome to the Forum!!

I agree with Carol Ann . . . borrowing your sister's clothes is not a good idea . . . it's always so much better to have your own! Be careful, because it's all too easy to get caught.

- SL

I have a backpack which I have stored christmas presents in. I live somewhat close enough to where I can walk to yard sales. One day, I'll get some of my own and put them in there. Someday...

Welcome Alexander,

Well I would say you are way ahead of your contemporaries at your stage in life. At least you realize all of us are different, both male and female and you are to be congratulated on at least, can I say, 'Trying to find yourself." I would not dwell to much on this aspect of your life, unless it is, as you sense it, an overwhelming desire to crossdress. If it is hopefully we can help guide you because most of us here have the grown-up status of "been there done that!" I would also have to reiterate, don't wear your siblings or mother's clothes. Women have an inborn sense of knowing when their "stuff" has been violated.

Just step back from "it" and see how you feel about dressing. Is it an all encompassing desire or perhaps just hormones getting the best of you? At your age that can happen and there is nothing at all wrong with that.

We hope that if the latter is something that you trend towards, we may be able to help you, but hormones?? Some of us sometimes wish we still had that drive? (Jeannie!) Sorry, could not resist - its and inside joke!

Anyway if we can help just let us know!

Virginia

Hi Alexander, and welcome to out little cornor of the world.

Leeza

Thank to everyone who replied.

Welcome Alexander. Take some time to read the threads on here. You'll find lots of interesting stuff.

Stephanie

Hello! Nice to see new teens coming in. Makes me feel like I'm not the only one who didn't want to wait for mid-life crisis to come clean about myself.

Anywho, welcome to the boards and enjoy the ride.

Hi Alexander
Sorry I missed you earlier, welcome to this lovely place from me, over the water
Kay

HI Alex
I too wish you well and am glad you are here if you ever need someone to listen to you, have surely have come to the right place. I do know how you feel can remember it will..... Diane B

Welcome to the forum Alexander. I agree with you that men should be able to wear skirts, pantyhose, or whatever else feminine they feel like.

kimberlys-cd
joe in a skirt

Hi Alexander--
Welcome to the forum. I hope you can find the right yard sale sometime soon!

Hi Alexander,

Welcome to the forum. Hopefully when you are old enough and have a job, you'll be able to get your own place and have your own wardrobe and be able to dress whenever you want to.

Felicity