Hi there.

MelodyPerkins · Post by **MelodyPerkins** » Sun Nov 29, 2009 8:58 am

Not sure what to say just yet.

I've dressed in girl's clothing since age 4, and wanted to be a girl since then.

My childhood was full of abuse and neglect, which may explain some things.

I have a wife and three sons. My wife knows about my issues and is having trouble with it. My sons know nothing about it.

My youngest son (6) for three years has expressed a desire to be a girl, which makes me wonder about genetics.

Best wishes,
Melody

SilverLady(SO) · Post by **SilverLady(SO)** » Sun Nov 29, 2009 9:36 am

Hi, Melody, and welcome to the Forum!

Your wife (SO) is more than welcome to join the Forum, too . . . she'll receive a lot of help and understanding from both the GG/SO's and the other CD's, too, even if all she does is read the many posts.

- SL

Wendae · Post by **Wendae** » Sun Nov 29, 2009 2:37 pm

I wonder about genetics as well. One uncle was a CDer, aunt was a lesbian and had suspicions about my father. My kids haven't shown any traits as yet. Anyway, welcome.

Post by **DonnaT** » Sun Nov 29, 2009 8:31 pm

Hi Melody,

to the forum.

April Rose · Post by **April Rose** » Sun Nov 29, 2009 9:02 pm

Welcome, Melody. You have a unique perspective, with your son, in that you have walked the walk. Don't let anxiety overwhelm you, and remember that his generation is not as uptight about these issues as ours was, and you will do fine.

Rony · Post by **Rony** » Mon Nov 30, 2009 6:52 am

Welcome to the forum.
There are alot of great folks here.
Ronnie

Margaret · Post by **Margaret** » Mon Nov 30, 2009 12:03 pm

Welcome to the site Melody.

Virginia · Post by **Virginia** » Mon Nov 30, 2009 9:08 pm

Welcome Melody,

Hope you stay and participate with us.

Virginia

Leeza · Post by **Leeza** » Wed Dec 02, 2009 8:41 pm

Hi Melody and welcome

Leeza