Like I said, I've kept it a secret since I was a youngster - but recently my girlfriend has encouraged me to join a forum, maybe even go out with some others for me to gain confidence. At first I wasn't sure if it would be something that I'd be into, but the idea of it has grown on me. There's no real reason for me to be secretive about it, especially something I enjoy. I used to only dress up by myself in lingerie, but now I'm wearing dresses and skirts;heels and boots; make up and I'm styling my hair to be more pretty. I've been thinking about giving myself a girl's name too; I wish that I had pushed my boundries earlier!
I've never been able to explain the reasons why I do it. I just love the feeling of dressing up pretty - having a hidden feminine aspect of myself liberated and in the driver's seat, rather than ticking along in the background - if that makes sense.
Anyway, that's my ramlbing intro over. Hello
It's nice to feel feminine and look pretty. Your girlfriend sounds like someone who cares, its great to get encouragement from an SO., get dressed and go out !
Debbie
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