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Hi I am just admitted that I am a Crossdresser and have been for a while but would not admit it to even myself. No one knows at all not even the wife. SO i will need a lot of help coming to grips with this plus doing it the smart way. Thanks. Gelinda.

to our little haven Gelinda,

There is a lot of information about your interests in some the previous posts on this forum.

Check out the section on coping for CD's and some of the other sections like Do you know How I feel.

I am sure others will be along shortly with more advise.

Anything that you can't get answered there, ask away and we will try and help.

Gelinda wrote:Hi I am just admitted that I am a Crossdresser and have been for a while but would not admit it to even myself. No one knows at all not even the wife. SO i will need a lot of help coming to grips with this plus doing it the smart way. Thanks. Gelinda.

Hi Gelinda,

Everyone's situation is different and must be worked through slowly. There are a lot of people here who can give you advice.

Welcome to your new home.

Hi Gelinda!

Welcome aboard!!! We will be glad to offer as much help as we possibly can! Please know that you are not alone on this journey, there are so many others that going through this with you!

Hugs,
Stef

Hi Gelinda!

Welcome to the forum!

As you can see there's lots of good people here who want to help anyway they can. Please feel free to tap into this support.

Sometimes by doing a search you can find lots of the information about a topic you may be interested in.

Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you.

Beauty

Welcome Gelinda,
As you can see your sisters are here to support you and don't be bashful about asking directions on your Magical Mystery Tour.
Love.
Deborah

Hello Gelinda,

I want to reiterate what everyone else has said: Welcome.

You're amongst friends here, so take your time, and talk to us when you see the need. We've all been through it, and are willing to help as best as we can.

Take care, and look forward to seeing you again,

Caroline.

Hi Gelinda,

I'm very glad you decided to join this wonderful group

I think my husband was just coming to terms with himself also, which was one of the reasons (I believe) he decided to tell me of his CDing several months ago.

hi gelinda,welcome to this wonderful site.
i'm sure that you will enjoy it.

thanks to everyone. I am sure I will ask a lot of basic questions but I still fine the only dumb question is the one not asked that leads to misfortune or mistakes.

Super Thanks to Everyone.

Hi Gelinda,
You're on the right track. Admission is the first step. "Hello, My name is Kyra. I am a crossdresser." (Kinda feels like you're at an AA meeting or something. (I'm poking fun at myself, not you.) When I first realized what, or more appropriately who I was, I felt kinda embarrassed to admit it. That was long ago.

You'll find many of us can relate to what you're going through and there's tons of posts on every topic under the sun. (finding time to read through it all is the challenge!)

Well, I just wanted to welcome you and say I hope you enjoy the site.

Hugs,
Kyra