Page 1 of 1

One new member.

Posted: Fri Aug 24, 2012 7:57 pm
by Heida
Hi, there.

Let me introduce myself. I'm a 23 year old person from Iceland and the first time I wanted to wear a dress was when I was four. Since then I have had periods in my life where I cross dressed but because of the incredible shame I associated with it these periods were short. I tried on my sisters bras and clothes and once ruined my mothers lipstick. But I was never caught and forgot about these desires for some years. I met my SO. at 15 and we've been together since, and are now happily married. My feminine urges returned when I was 17 and I told my SO. that I wanted to wear female lingerie and she actually bought me my first bra!
The longings have been coming and going since then, but there was always the shame. Recently I completely opened up to my wife and told her everything about how I wish for nothing more than to be able to be female at times. She has been nothing but supportive and has even helped me get over most of the shame of expressing my feminine self in private.
I have been thinking a lot about gender identity and am trying to find myself and where I fit in the scheme of things. Therefore I want to participate in a supportive society that understands my feelings, I'm happy to have found this site. It looks its kind and supportive.

Well there you have it! Nice to meet you all.

Re: One new member.

Posted: Fri Aug 24, 2012 8:08 pm
by Sarah Ann
Welcome Heida. You sound like you'll enjoy it here :)

Re: One new member.

Posted: Fri Aug 24, 2012 8:25 pm
by Davita
-wel- see you in the chat? Tell the better half to join too. She will have people here for her as well.

Re: One new member.

Posted: Fri Aug 24, 2012 8:29 pm
by SilverLady(SO)
Hi, Heida, and welcome to the Forum! ..o)..

As Davita stated, your wife (SO) is more than welcome to join the forum, too! [-o<


- SL

Re: One new member.

Posted: Fri Aug 24, 2012 8:37 pm
by Leeza
Hi, Heida, and -wel- to our home on the internet.

Your wife is welcome also.

Leeza

Re: One new member.

Posted: Fri Aug 24, 2012 8:49 pm
by Anthony Simon
Welcome, Heida.

Re: One new member.

Posted: Sat Aug 25, 2012 1:16 am
by Martina H.
Hi Heida -wel- I think that you will like it here.

Re: One new member.

Posted: Sat Aug 25, 2012 2:14 pm
by Rikki
Welcome, Heida. This is the best place around, you'll make great friends and find out the answers to many of your questions, I'm sure.

Rikki

Re: One new member.

Posted: Sat Aug 25, 2012 5:08 pm
by Anna
Hello Heida. Welcome to the forum.

It is fantastic that your SO is so understanding!

-wel-

Re: One new member.

Posted: Sun Aug 26, 2012 3:48 am
by Phil
Hi Heida
Welcome to the forum. I hope that you ask questions, share experiences and feel at home.
Keep smiling
Phil

Re: One new member.

Posted: Sun Aug 26, 2012 7:19 am
by DonnaT
Hi Heida, -wel- to the forum.

Re: One new member.

Posted: Sun Aug 26, 2012 8:02 am
by Carly
Welcome Heida

Re: One new member.

Posted: Sun Aug 26, 2012 8:58 am
by Ami
Hi! I'm sure we would love to hear about clothing styles from Iceland! (in another thread, of course) Welcome!

Re: One new member.

Posted: Sun Aug 26, 2012 1:12 pm
by Rony
Welcome Heida
Your one of the lucky ones, you have a supportive SO.
Take care of her

Ronnie