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Posted: **Sat Jun 19, 2004 8:32 pm**

Hello;

Shirley will be typing this because she is better at it then I am.

We have been married 27 years.

They have not all been very smooth, some have infact been very rough.

We have no kids.

But we do have lots of pets that we love.

Donna Is a truckdriver and I an a non working Job Coach by trade.
We do not have the temperment to do the others job.

We were married 19 years when I was told officially about the Crossdressing. Donna knew about it for years ( since a teenager ). Donna put the dressing on a back burner for a long time trying to act more masculine, this included going into Junior ROTC and applying for the Air Force Academy.

The first 3 years of my knowing was the roughest so far. From not knowing, to finding out, to having to take TG 101, to helping to fight for CD and TG Civil Rights, to having to learn how much of the whole situation I would accept.

WE are now at the point where Donna and I go out to a lot of places together. We have different oppinions on some of the things that we like and dislike ( including TV shows ).

We can be reached thru our different Emails. Hope to hear from someone.........

Posted: **Sat Jun 19, 2004 8:53 pm**

Hi Donna and Shirley,
Sounds like you folks will be quite an asset to us. As you probably noticed we have a section for SO's and we try and cover most other areas. From your backgound I bet you will have a lot to offer us. We look forward to hearing from you.
Deborah

Posted: **Sat Jun 19, 2004 9:10 pm**

Hi Donna and Shirley,

Welcome to the forum, Donna!

Shirley, I think I may have welcomed you elsewhere on the forum but, just in case I haven't, let me do so again (one can never be faced with too many open arms, eh?): Welcome to the forum, Shirley!

I'm looking forward to contributions by both you and Donna. Twenty seven years married, eh?

Yikes! I was still listening to my Queen vinyl albums when you folks tied the knot! Congratulations!

Love,
CJ

Posted: **Sat Jun 19, 2004 10:29 pm**

Hello Deborah and CJ;

Thank you for the responces. Forgot to mention ::::: Shirley(SO) has already posted messages on some of the topics. Donna has been mostly reading everyone elses responces so far.

Shirley(SO)

Posted: **Sat Jun 19, 2004 11:47 pm**

Well, gee then, Donna, what are you waiting for, girl? Dive right in! The water's good... and we don't bite.

Love,
CJ

Posted: **Sun Jun 20, 2004 3:16 am**

Donna.

Posted: **Sun Jun 20, 2004 4:51 am**

Hi Donna and Hi Shirley,

Welcome to the forum.

Hugs,
Wendy

Posted: **Sun Jun 20, 2004 5:31 am**

Welcome to the forum.

Posted: **Sun Jun 20, 2004 9:06 am**

Donna & Shirley, Glad you coudl join us. Please make your selves at home and join right in.

Posted: **Sun Jun 20, 2004 12:20 pm**

Hi Donna and Shirley, and welcome to the forum. It is "Sooo Kewl" to have all the SO's joining in. The input from them is so helpful to all of us. Looking forward to hearing from both of you.
Huggs, Bonnie

Posted: **Sun Jun 20, 2004 4:55 pm**

Hi Donna and Shirley!

Welcome to the group! It makes my day when I see a couple in this forum together!

Hugs,
Stef

PS........

DONNA O wrote: WE are now at the point where Donna and I go out to a lot of places together. We have different oppinions on some of the things that we like and dislike ( including TV shows ).

I have never seen a married couple that agreed on everything anyways!

Posted: **Sun Jun 20, 2004 11:20 pm**

Hi Donna,
Welcome to our forum!!! Glad that you decided to join us along with your wife Shirley(SO), who we have already met...

Posted: **Sun Jun 20, 2004 11:47 pm**

Hi Donna, (thanks Shirley for writing)

You are definitely like a lot of us CD'd folks here.

Thank you for sharing your life with us. It means a whole lot to us.

From those of us who are just beginning to understand, all the way to those who are CD'rs and are ok with it. Your story is incredibly refreshing!

I hope we hear more from you!!

Beauty

Posted: **Mon Jun 21, 2004 7:42 am**

Hi Donna and Shirley,
welome to the forum, I think having couples here is what makes it so special
best wishes
Rebecca xxx

Posted: **Mon Jun 21, 2004 3:21 pm**

hello donna and shirley i just read your story and i am real proud to have you along with us for the ride.i have been married for 35 years and just the past four have been also a little wavy as i had to tell my wife all about myself or i would have gone crazy.she is now mostly going along with my desires and the only problem is our four grown kids,as we all live under the same roof this can be a bit of a problem when i want to get out of the house and go to my cd meetings.they know but they dont want to know so i still have to go out in a very suspicious way and they always glance at me as if i am doing something bad/,,,,well glad to meet you both and love from me phylis anne

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