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my BF and I have been together 7 years now. he informed me of his CD right after we started going out and I am very supportive of his wants and needs. I will admit it was a shock at first, but now I am very accepting, understanding and willing to do whatever he asks of me.

thank you for this site.

Welcome to the Forum, Amy!! We're glad to have you here, and if your BF isn't already a member, then he is invited to join also!

We're looking forward to your participation!!

- SL

thanks for the warm welcome !

Hi Amy, to the forum.

Your BF was smart to tell you early on.

Hi Amy (Hun)

Thanks for Joining the forum.

I told Amy a few days after we started dating. I thought it would be best to be right up front with it. If Amy was unable to accept it there would be a lot less emotional strain on both of us. that was my thinking back then and it was the best thing I ever did. I can not imagine what the cost would have been had not told her back then and she found out after we had both put in substantial time and effort into the relationship.

Honesty is the best policy
Nancy T

A nice warm welcome to both Amy and Nancy!!!!!

We hope you will share your relationship's development with us. Needless to say you are a bit unique and a lot of relationships could benefit some of our members in knowing how you both adjusted to each other and how you were able to overcome a lot of "bumps in the road!"

Thanks.
Virginia

Hi Virginia,

Every relationship has bumps in the road. all it takes is honest and open comunication to smooth out those bumps. Without that there can be no relationship. Was I affraid to tell Amy that I crossdressed, You bet I was. But I needed to be truthful to both myself and Amy. I had been keeping Nancy locked up inside and she had been screaming to come out. And I could not keep her locked up any longer.

Amy allows me to dress as often as I want to but as long as we stay home and do not venture from the house. unless it is Halloween, and I respect and honer her wishes.

Since I told Amy, I have come out to both her and my families and a few friends. everyone we have told has been nothing short of accepting Nancy, most had an idea anyway.

hope this helped
Huggs
Nancy T

Welcome Amy,
Its wonderful to see you and all the other SO's and GG's coming to the forum.

Hi Virginia and Jennifer M,

As Nancy T said...I am very open and understnding of his/her needs. I also can understand of how it was tough for Nancy T to tell me back then, but we have been together 7 years and we are still going strong. I am glad that Nancy T invited me to join here, it will definately help me to understand. thanks for having me here.

Hi Amy,

Welcome to the forum. Looking forward to reading your comments.

Hello Amy, a belated welcome.

thanks for the warm welcome Lucy and Carla.