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Hi. I'm Chloe. I'm a sophmore in highschool. I can't really say I enjoy crossdressing because most of my experience with it comes from wearing an old wedding gown...not to say I didn't love that. I also regularly shave my legs (and by regularly I mean when I'm not doing work or sleeping) and I love that. But in my heart of hearts I don't want really want to be a girl not so much as I want to be a lesbian and I want to crossdress like one. I'm kind of bigender I guess. Like, I'm fine with being a dude (even if dudes are gross and have lots of hair and ew) but I want to be lesbian. That's how I identify sexually I guess. Outside of that well, I like music, weird movies, video games...nerdy stuff. BTW, are there to many people my age on this site?

Welcome Chloe to the forum. Yes we cross dressers come in many forms. I myself am a guy in femme clothes type of CDer and only wear a wig and makeup when I go out in full femme to hide my male identity and protect my wife and kids. We live in a small town and life would be hell for them if I was outed.

Do your parents, siblings or any friends happen to know about your CDing?

KimberlyS-CD
joe in a skirt

Well this is a fun story. My parents are pretty liberal and when I showed them I shaved my legs they didn't really care. They were a little put off at first but they didn't mind. Now my friends...that's the interesting part. I've got a pair of lesbian friends, who I guess are my role models. They're supportive. However, I still haven't come out to my best friend who is starting to hate them for calling me Chloe. That's gonna be fun...

Hi Chloe, to the forum.

I know you are have some fun, but please be careful with respect to who you tell. Once the cat is out of the bag it can't be put back in.

Good advice Donna. I'll keep that in mind.

Hi, Chloe, and welcome to the Forum! We look forward to your participation, so don't be shy!!

- SL

Hello Chloe, a warm welcome to the forum

Hello Chloe and welcome to the forum. Do not worry about being a male that happens to like wearing clothes not for your birth gender. I am quite happy being male but also love to wear fem clothes.

Hi Chloe,

Welcome to the forums. I think there are a few people your age here but we tend to be older. I believe Eureka is in high school also.

The lesbian in a mans body is a description I've heard before. It's not how I would describe myself but I do know that I kind of like lesbians, if one can be comfortable with such a generalizing stereotype. It's as if once they know that I know then we can dispense with all the worrying about sexual stuff. Plus it can be fun to talk about what women are attractive to us.

I'd like to echo what has been said about discretion. Some people here are totally out, others not at all. Just remember that once something is said it can never be unsaid.

Absaroka

Absaroka wrote:
I do know that I kind of like lesbians, if one can be comfortable with such a generalizing stereotype.

Absaroka

haha, welcome to my world. I fell for two lesbian one after the other. The first was in love with the second while I liked her and the second came out as a lesbian and they're now together.

As you can see, I have a lot of luck with the ladies.

It's precisely because I don't fall in love with them that I like them as friends.

Your luck isn't so bad. My first real girlfriend didn't happen till I was 17 and a half.

Absaroka

Hi Chloe,

Welcome to the forum. The majority of ladies here are old enough to be your mom. That being said, you should also know that wisdom comes with age. There's a great deal of knowledge in the members of this forum.
While today's generation is a WHOLE LOT more accepting than mine, you should be cautious about who knows your "secret". High School is difficult enough without having some jealous person 'out' you to the whole school.

Hugs,
Kyra