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Just saying HI!!!!!

I just registered and am looking forward to this new forum. To let all know a little about me,, I've been cding since about 11 or 12 yrs old.Just got remarried , and my sweet wife just found out about my cding about a week ago. So far she has been accepting about the idea but is confused about it. She has found a SO of another cd and they have been IMing each other. She is the LOVE of my life and I'm soooo glad that this secret is finally out! Now we have no secrets between each other.

Regardes, Lilly

Hi Lilly!

It´s good to hear that you´ve told your wife! Confusion is a normal reaction but I´m sure she´ll get over it. Maybe your wife could also participate the discussions at this forum??Hope to hear more from you soon

Joanna

Hi Lilly,

BRAVO!!!

That so rocks that you opened up to your wife!

Welcome to the forum!!!

Beauty

Hi Lilly,

Wlecome!

I'm glad to see you have joined this forum.

I also hope that your wife(SO) joins as well, as all the ladies here are very understanding and can be very helpful to you both. I understand your wife confusion , with just find this out. Many of the wives here have felt the same way your wife has. Since I have joined, I don't feel so alone anymore. and I also have gained a better understanding of my hubby. My hubby has also gained a better understanding of how I feel, by him reading all the different posts by the SO's.


P.S. Please let your wife know the I am more than happy to IM with your wife anytime she needs to again.


Love (SO)

Good for you, it is so much better to be out in the open about this with your wife. Be prepared for lots of questions and very long talks about everything. But try and be patient and not push to much right away. it all takes time. By finding a place like this you will both do fine. And she won't feel so alone with this, there are plenty of wives with CD for husbands and we are working it into our relationships. And some of us are even enjoying ourselves
Honey

Hi Lilly. and It`s great to hear that you wife is so accepting. I hope to hear more from both of you


Hugzzzzzz,
Geena

Hi Lilly,
Welcome to our forum. I know you will find the ladies here intelligent, beautiful and most helpful. I think that one thing that was not clear, at least to me, you said, she found out about your CD'ing. Did you tell her or did she surprise you or just find your wardrobe? How she found out can have a bearing on how she initially accepts, dare I say, the new girl in her life. We would be more than welcoming to her should she wish to visit with us. There are several SO's here that "have been there done that." and have some great insight into what to expect.
Best wishes and thanks for joining us,
Deborah

Hi and

Lefty

Hi Lilly!

Come on in! The water's fine!

Hi all again,

To answer your questions,,, My wife found my "history" on the computer. She was Disturbed as she put it. We had a long talk about it and she is trying to understand all this. She went into the cddf chat and found Love another SO, they have been IMing and she like I said,, Is trying. We both have told each other how much we LOVE each other and are working through this.

Lilly

P.S. We have talked in the past. Remember me???????
Lilly

BTW My SWEETIE Has registered here as Dee, and we have been reading,Talking, ETC.
Lilly

Hi Lilly--
So glad you could tell your wife! Welcome!
Anita

Hey Lilly,
It's so good that you told your wife. Keeping secrets is no fun. (I know.) We have a wonderful SO section here that Dee can use. Our SO's are beautiful ladies who are very caring and helpful. --And we're here for you too!

Welcome to the forum!

Hugs,
Kyra