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I am Aislin.
I am back after an excessively long time.
The hiatus was due to a purge. I purged myself from the site and kept my clothes. Kinda dumb but needed. I reawaken to the possibilities in this life and restart my comments with my wife as partner.

My wife has had bariatric surgery and is loosing the weight steadily. as she becomes thinner I find my self rethinking where we are and where I want to be.

My wife, yes this is true, buys me outfits for my birthday from Walmart, encourages me to explore the opportunities in the Red coats brands (Woman Within - great title-, Romans) I have my own accounts, and has started to buy me makeup! I got really lucky!!!

I now wear panties everyday to work, relax en femme when work is over/usually in a dress or skirt outfit, and wear all Femme all weekend. Now I need to find a work at home job so I can make the work place femme friendly.

Welcome back, Aislin . . . you've been missed! I don't remember if your wife is a member, but she's more than welcome, too!

*Hugs*

- SL

Hi Aislin--
Welcome back! It's been about a year since you were here, it looks like. I'm glad you didn't purge the clothes, too. It's not clear to me exactly what you've been through, however.

It seems as though you were trying to stop expressing a femme side for a certain amount of time, and it helped to do that. At what point did your wife begin buying outifts for you again? Did you decide that you'd done what you needed to do, and it was OK?

I've read about the bariactic surgery, and that is a radical life change to have that done. One of local weeklies in San Francisco had a feature article about one of their writers who went through the process.

http://www.sfweekly.com/2008-01-02/news ... -self/full

I can see why you would need to re-think where both of you want to be, while this is going on. Maybe weight loss shouldn't be so important to us as a society, but there's no denying that it has an effect on both the person who loses the weight, and other people around them.

It sounds like things are going well at this time.

back Aislin.

Hi Aislin
Welcome back from one of the newer girls across the pond
Kay