Crossdressers-Haven.com

Please help us by participating in our survey about what crossdressers would like in a vacation!

* Link removed by SL, see post below. *

Many thanks!

Jessica

Hi all,

I received a private email with feedback about my request and thought I should share some more information. I want everyone to feel comfortable with the survey if they choose to participate.

The background to this enquiry is that many crossdressers don't have places they can safely go to crossdress, either because they are not "out" to their significant other, or more often than not they can't easily pass for a woman in public.

Our company is seeking ways to find places where anyone can go on vacation and feel 100% comfortable wearing whatever they wish - whether they can pass for a woman or not.

Our opinions (those of a genetic woman and her crossdressing husband) may not align with yours. I know we'd like a safe. secluded environment with a lot of space to take walks in the woods, swim in the lake or pool, just hang out on a deck with a cocktail, etc. We'd like to be in a place where we can travel as a couple and not feel any pressure to participate in crossdressing or "events", but just dress as the mood takes us and meet other like-minded people if we so choose.

We envisage a safe "haven" where everyone can come on a regular basis to relax and recharge for days or weeks at a time... We know that the stresses caused by not dressing for long periods can be reduced if you've got a vacation to look forward to...

I also work for a co-operative organization, so I know that the model of everyone coming together for a common aim works... I'm sure most of us can't afford to buy our own multi-million-dollar private island where we could live and dress in our own controlled environment, but a group of us together could do exactly that...

It's a concept that works - the popularity of timeshare and fractional ownership resorts attests to that. There's no reason why we can't all have a share in a place that could offer us 4 or 5 weeks (or many weekends) of the life we want.

Please feel free to contact me directly if you have any questions or concerns with the survey, or about our plan in general!

Jessica

Hi, Jessica -

Our opinions (those of a genetic woman and her crossdressing husband) may not align with yours.

Are you the CD or the SO in the relationship?

Our company is seeking ways to find places where anyone can go on vacation and feel 100% comfortable wearing whatever they wish - whether they can pass for a woman or not.

In other words, you are actually advertising your business on our Forum, and you have not sought permission to do so; in fact, you've previously been advised that you may not post your business site here. While I appreciate your business venture and the vacation idea behind it, you may not advertise it here in any form. For those that are wondering, it concerns timeshare resorts.

The link to your survey has been removed and is not to be posted again in the forum. If any member is interested in participating in your survey, they may contact you directly for the link.

Further, if advertising your company is the reason why you joined this support forum, then you joined for the wrong reason and you have a decision to make.


- SilverLady(SO),
Site Administrator

Been a member of this forum a long long time and I support SilverLady in this matter

SilverLady:

To answer your question, I am the SO in this relationship.

I'm sorry that my posting seems to have offended people or contravened rules. As the survey was very generic and didn't make mention of my website or business I thought it was a good way to solicit feedback. What better way to get feedback from crossdressers than to ask them directly?

Anyway, thanks for clarifying the situation. It's difficult to interpret tone or nuances from emails or forum postings, but hopefully your last comment doesn't mean I'm no longer welcome here.

Jessica

Jessica -

Thank you for clarifying your SO status. Your user name will be amended to JessicaTracy (SO) and by doing so our members will know that you are not a CD.

You are more than welcome to remain a member here, and we look forward to your continued participation.

- SL