Well, the thing is, the bride & groom are paying for the entire wedding on their own, no help from their families whatsoever. And the bride has an ENORMOUS family.Jadeanne wrote:Lorna,
Wouldn't the happy couple consider you paying for the tuxedo rental and being in the wedding party enough of a gift, considering that you are unemployed?
Almost 30 years ago, I was just out of college with no job and was an usher for a cousin's wedding. They considered my paying for the tuxedo rental and being in the wedding party as my gift.
Jadeanne
Hey, I can get them a much cheaper gift.
Plus I can still get my groove on at the reception, even though I'll be en drab... at least my GG friend will be there to accompany me! I can't wait to see her face when she sees me en drab for the first time!!