Hi all,
Asheley,
No, I haven't seen her and I never got around to asking Lynn, the waitress, about her. She (the TG gal) doesn't do drab, I think. She looks like a woman, a full-time woman. I haven't been to the restaurant in a few days and won't be able to this weekend (I'll be out of town). So, maybe next week. Again, I'll keep y'all posted. Thanks, Asheley, for bringing this one back up.
Love,
CJ
New girl in the neighbourhood...
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Elizabeth
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Hi CJ,
I get it I think, I mean we all love women, us crossdressers that is. Even if it is another crossdresser or TS. Many of the girls in this forum are quite attractive. My brain can not tell the difference. However this may be a unique opportunity to learn about yourself. I think that because you were attracted to her before you made her, It creates a new interest. I am sure many of us have wondered if we could be attracted to a man that is stunningly beautiful as a woman. It is confusing, I think the overriding force here is nothing but curiosity. I admire your desire not only to pursue making this new friend, but sharing it with all of us. The lines do get blurred, perhaps your experiences will help enlighten all of us, as they usually do.
Love always,
Elizabeth
I get it I think, I mean we all love women, us crossdressers that is. Even if it is another crossdresser or TS. Many of the girls in this forum are quite attractive. My brain can not tell the difference. However this may be a unique opportunity to learn about yourself. I think that because you were attracted to her before you made her, It creates a new interest. I am sure many of us have wondered if we could be attracted to a man that is stunningly beautiful as a woman. It is confusing, I think the overriding force here is nothing but curiosity. I admire your desire not only to pursue making this new friend, but sharing it with all of us. The lines do get blurred, perhaps your experiences will help enlighten all of us, as they usually do.
Love always,
Elizabeth
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SophieLawson
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CJ
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Hi all,
Sophie,
Thanks for the interest.
Sadly, no, I haven't seen her since that last time on the stairs outside. And it's not that I haven't yet had the gumption to ask Lynn about her; I just haven't had the opportunity yet. I'm trying to catch her (Lynn) when there aren't too many people in the restaurant--this really is the kind of place where everybody knows your name, so, in order to avoid this TS woman potential embarrassment, I'm wanting to ask Lynn about her when nobody else is around. I don't really care if others find out about me (most of the regulars know about "Christina" already, anyway); I just want to be as sensitive as I can about, well, about "Lady X," I guess I can call her.
On a side note, Lynn and a couple of the customers have begun arguing--sotto voce--with me about whether or not I'm really a crossdresser, despite the photos I've shown them. Lynn dared me to show up as Christina one of these Saturday mornings.
I asked the boss (who likes me a lot) if this would bother him (he and his wife are Muslim). His reply: "If you think this will scare my customers away, don't do it; if you think this will draw more people in here, then, by all means, do it! Please!" Hmmm. I'm debating. It's a tough call. Many of the older regulars are blue collar gents... road crews and construction workers, mixed in with a fair amount of cabbies and truck drivers. Still, I think it would be pretty safe; there are no groups of teenage girls! 
As I've said, I'll keep you all posted.
Love,
CJ
Sophie,
Thanks for the interest.
Sadly, no, I haven't seen her since that last time on the stairs outside. And it's not that I haven't yet had the gumption to ask Lynn about her; I just haven't had the opportunity yet. I'm trying to catch her (Lynn) when there aren't too many people in the restaurant--this really is the kind of place where everybody knows your name, so, in order to avoid this TS woman potential embarrassment, I'm wanting to ask Lynn about her when nobody else is around. I don't really care if others find out about me (most of the regulars know about "Christina" already, anyway); I just want to be as sensitive as I can about, well, about "Lady X," I guess I can call her.On a side note, Lynn and a couple of the customers have begun arguing--sotto voce--with me about whether or not I'm really a crossdresser, despite the photos I've shown them. Lynn dared me to show up as Christina one of these Saturday mornings.
I asked the boss (who likes me a lot) if this would bother him (he and his wife are Muslim). His reply: "If you think this will scare my customers away, don't do it; if you think this will draw more people in here, then, by all means, do it! Please!" Hmmm. I'm debating. It's a tough call. Many of the older regulars are blue collar gents... road crews and construction workers, mixed in with a fair amount of cabbies and truck drivers. Still, I think it would be pretty safe; there are no groups of teenage girls! As I've said, I'll keep you all posted.
Love,
CJ
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SophieLawson
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CJ
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Hi all,
Don't worry, Sophie; Not only would I hold my own, but I think half the people there, including Lynn (she's a feisty, fiery little woman) would come to my defense.
Elizabeth,
For some reason, I hadn't noticed your post. Sometimes, the icons signaling new posts aren't always twirling when I access the forum. I'm not sure why. The result? I sometimes miss posts. Yes, my own interest in Lady X has got me stumped; I'm starting to wonder what meaning I attribute to being heterosexual. Does it mean I love women... or even just the "image" of women? My attraction to Lady X is part curiosity, part esthetics, and part physical. Actually, "attraction" may be a bit of a strong word for what I feel. Still, the fact that it doesn't go away even when I'm almost convinced that she was once (or still now is) a man puzzles me. Maybe I'm not as rabidly "het" as I've always thought I was? Oh well, to be continued...
Love,
CJ
Don't worry, Sophie; Not only would I hold my own, but I think half the people there, including Lynn (she's a feisty, fiery little woman) would come to my defense.
Elizabeth,
For some reason, I hadn't noticed your post. Sometimes, the icons signaling new posts aren't always twirling when I access the forum. I'm not sure why. The result? I sometimes miss posts. Yes, my own interest in Lady X has got me stumped; I'm starting to wonder what meaning I attribute to being heterosexual. Does it mean I love women... or even just the "image" of women? My attraction to Lady X is part curiosity, part esthetics, and part physical. Actually, "attraction" may be a bit of a strong word for what I feel. Still, the fact that it doesn't go away even when I'm almost convinced that she was once (or still now is) a man puzzles me. Maybe I'm not as rabidly "het" as I've always thought I was? Oh well, to be continued...
Love,
CJ