Shame

[Domonique]

Hello All,
I was thinking about something.. It is a shame that we are all seperated by this great land that we live in. It would be great to create a place for us all to gather and live. It would be great to live and work and just be around other CD's. We wouldn't have to hide, we could dress and be who we are all the time without societies judgement. Eventually we would be the only society left from all the social wars. i.e. we know how to get along with each other.

[Ralitsa]

it is true, it is a shame that we do not live together in a civilized way.
I would guess that CDers will have as many disagreements among themselves as any other group would have.
Actually I know many "normal" people who are fine with my crossdressing. On the other hand I'm not sure I would want to live with another CDer, we would probably fight over pantyhose and stuff.
Maybe you have not read very many of my posts yet, but I always wear what I like and do not care anything about the judgements of somebody else. You really can do it now, obviously there are always some side effects.
It sounds like you are wishing for acceptance and support, well this is the right place for that. You do not need to feel shame about who you are, I certainly am not ashamed of myself and I wear womens clothes in public all the time. I will not lie and say that I have no reservations or apprehensions about it, but my plan is to be so overtly confident and composed that anyone will feel guilty to challenge me. anyway, that is what I try for....

[Paula G]

I think we woudl all rather like to be like Ralitsa, but for me part fo fthe fun of my CDing is to A/ be out in society, associating with "civilians" and especially lunching with my GG friends, and B/ I like to be a man for me this is very much about having a foot in both camps (although I do try to avoid being camp), I have said before that I think being a part time woman makes me a better man. ~ Also if we were all together we wouldn't be different..........

[Vieja]

Aaah Domonique it is an intriguing thought but somehow I think I would still be reluctant to go out dressed not because I would be ashamed but

because I don't project a very good feminine image.


Vieja

[Anthony Simon]

Hello All,
I was thinking about something.. It is a shame that we are all seperated by this great land that we live in. It would be great to create a place for us all to gather and live.

I really respond to the idea of having a place where we could all gather.That would be great. Like a place where you could drop in if you wanted to - a sort of social centre for CDs. Maybe a bit like this place made into physical reality.

It would be great to live and work and just be around other CD's. We wouldn't have to hide, we could dress and be who we are all the time without societies judgement. Eventually we would be the only society left from all the social wars. i.e. we know how to get along with each other.

Me, I really want the control of living in my own space. Like this would be a CDing commune and I'm not so sure I'm a commune-type person.

[Domonique]

This is a an intriguing thought. Although I have no need for exceptance I do like the socialization with other CD's. We all have an understanding of how we feel (mostly). We can talk about most anything and if we don't understand or if we have a question we can most certainly get an answer. Now convincing non-understanding SO's is a little harder to do..(been down that road before).
BUT...we all know that there will not be a town or city or such for us all to live together... That is why we all come here...

[Absaroka]

I think that's called a ghetto and I have no desire to live in a crossdressers ghetto