Finally, a relationship that works...

Eureka · Post by **Eureka** » Wed Dec 13, 2006 8:51 am

hey girls,
I'm happy because yesterday I decided to come out and tell my GF I'm a CD and contrary to my expectations, she actually says she finds it kind of sexy

so instead of my little secret it's our little secret and now we're closer then ever!

Jess(SO) · Post by **Jess(SO)** » Wed Dec 13, 2006 3:22 pm

Eureka
firstly hi and welcome
Secondly congrats on telling your g/f if she would like join the forum we would be happy to welcome here here and also in the GG section of the forum

Jess

Post by **DonnaT** » Wed Dec 13, 2006 6:21 pm

Cool! Glad to hear it went well for you.

And may she continue to be accepting!

Post by **KimberlyS** » Wed Dec 13, 2006 8:27 pm

Eureka, that is great. Keep her informed and keep the communication open and she will most likely stay that way.

KimberlyS - CD

Stephanie W · Post by **Stephanie W** » Wed Dec 13, 2006 10:54 pm

Congratulations Eureka! May you forever enjoy your "mutual" little secret.

Stephanie

Carol Ann · Post by **Carol Ann** » Thu Dec 14, 2006 7:58 am

Eureka, that's really great $\:D/$

Stormy(SO) · Post by **Stormy(SO)** » Thu Dec 14, 2006 4:02 pm

WTG!! I hope you two have as much fun as Melyssa and I do.

Stormy

Virginia · Post by **Virginia** » Thu Dec 14, 2006 9:21 pm

Eureka,
Congratulations on this big step, now what we refer to as our "Marching orders" - small steps, honey. just small steps!
I don't wish to rain on your parade, but just keep your eyes and ears open and don't force Eureka on her. Let her absorb what you have told her and as has been recommended, should she have questions, please direct her to this forum.
Congrats again!
Love,
Virginia

Dagmar · Post by **Dagmar** » Fri Feb 16, 2007 4:26 am

That's wonderful Eureka. My brother is also a CD and when he finally came out to his wife it nearly destroyed the marriage. There were many rocky years there. Now it is a taboo subject. You must feel wonderful. Good for you, and your girlfriend.

Lisbeth · Post by **Lisbeth** » Fri Feb 16, 2007 11:20 pm

Good for you, Eureka! It sounds like you've taken the big step and all is well. I would just tell you to listen to Virginia about taking baby steps and staying very aware of her feelings. Don't hit her with too much at once and overwhelm her. It sounds like you're on pretty solid ground, though. Just keep the dialogue going strong.

Love,
Lisbeth

Kyra · Post by **Kyra** » Sat Feb 17, 2007 11:32 am

Not much more to add, just take it nice and slow. You know the old addage: "Too much of a good thing..."

Congrats and Hugs,
Kyra

Ronnie M · Post by **Ronnie M** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 4:39 pm

congrats to you.

"ronnie"

Eureka · Post by **Eureka** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 6:51 pm

actually as of yesturday im officiall single, seems like wat seemed like heaven had to end sometime

Virginia · Post by **Virginia** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 10:30 pm

So sorry to hear about that! You did not tell us why, but that is your business, just know that you are in our thoughts and we are here to support you.
Love,
Virginia

Post by **DonnaT** » Mon Feb 26, 2007 5:25 pm

Sorry to hear that Eureka.

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