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Finally, a relationship that works...
Posted: Wed Dec 13, 2006 8:51 am
by Eureka
hey girls,
I'm happy because yesterday I decided to come out and tell my GF I'm a CD and contrary to my expectations, she actually says she finds it kind of sexy
so instead of my little secret it's our little secret and now we're closer then ever!
Posted: Wed Dec 13, 2006 3:22 pm
by Jess(SO)
Eureka
firstly hi and welcome
Secondly congrats on telling your g/f if she would like join the forum we would be happy to welcome here here and also in the GG section of the forum
Jess
Posted: Wed Dec 13, 2006 6:21 pm
by DonnaT
Cool! Glad to hear it went well for you.
And may she continue to be accepting!
Posted: Wed Dec 13, 2006 8:27 pm
by KimberlyS
Eureka, that is great. Keep her informed and keep the communication open and she will most likely stay that way.
KimberlyS - CD
Posted: Wed Dec 13, 2006 10:54 pm
by Stephanie W
Congratulations Eureka! May you forever enjoy your "mutual" little secret.
Stephanie
Posted: Thu Dec 14, 2006 7:58 am
by Carol Ann
Congratulations!!
Posted: Thu Dec 14, 2006 4:02 pm
by Stormy(SO)
WTG!! I hope you two have as much fun as Melyssa and I do.
Stormy
Posted: Thu Dec 14, 2006 9:21 pm
by Virginia
Eureka,
Congratulations on this big step, now what we refer to as our "Marching orders" - small steps, honey. just small steps!
I don't wish to rain on your parade, but just keep your eyes and ears open and don't force Eureka on her. Let her absorb what you have told her and as has been recommended, should she have questions, please direct her to this forum.
Congrats again!
Love,
Virginia
Posted: Fri Feb 16, 2007 4:26 am
by Dagmar
That's wonderful Eureka. My brother is also a CD and when he finally came out to his wife it nearly destroyed the marriage. There were many rocky years there. Now it is a taboo subject. You must feel wonderful. Good for you, and your girlfriend.
Posted: Fri Feb 16, 2007 11:20 pm
by Lisbeth
Good for you, Eureka! It sounds like you've taken the big step and all is well. I would just tell you to listen to Virginia about taking baby steps and staying very aware of her feelings. Don't hit her with too much at once and overwhelm her. It sounds like you're on pretty solid ground, though. Just keep the dialogue going strong.
Love,
Lisbeth
Posted: Sat Feb 17, 2007 11:32 am
by Kyra
Not much more to add, just take it nice and slow. You know the old addage: "Too much of a good thing..."
Congrats and Hugs,
Kyra
happy?
Posted: Sun Feb 25, 2007 4:39 pm
by Ronnie M
congrats to you.
"ronnie"
Posted: Sun Feb 25, 2007 6:51 pm
by Eureka
actually as of yesturday im officiall single, seems like wat seemed like heaven had to end sometime
Posted: Sun Feb 25, 2007 10:30 pm
by Virginia
So sorry to hear about that! You did not tell us why, but that is your business, just know that you are in our thoughts and we are here to support you.
Love,
Virginia
Posted: Mon Feb 26, 2007 5:25 pm
by DonnaT
Sorry to hear that Eureka.
