Paying attention

[Wendae]

Maybe it is an old age thing but I'm paying more attention to what people are wearing and how they are dressed. The women here in Florida that are out and about most wear jeans/slacks or shorts. Tops mostly pull overs and very little make up or jewelery. Very casual and relaxed. The only time they appear to take care in their appearance is on Sunday or filling jobs that require professional attire. I 've seen some that could have been football players because of their size and many I wasn't really sure of their gender. I almost think adding a bra and shaving off some body hair that no one would even notice if I was to appear in public.
I'm not the only one that wears a lot of bracelets and rings. I see womens' loafers, nylons and nail polish frequently on men. No one appears to notice.
I think I"ll join the old folks sitting in the malls.
What's my point? From what I've said it should ask the question "why not go out"? I'd like to be dressed nicely and that probly would attract attention.

[KimberlyS]

... I 've seen some that could have been football players because of their size and many I wasn't really sure of their gender. ....

What's my point? From what I've said it should ask the question "why not go out"? I'd like to be dressed nicely and that probly would attract attention.

Wendae, I agree with you. I see many masculine looking GG's out there in size, looks, facial hair and voice. Some times the only way I can really tell gender is they are wearing a bra have a chest sticking out.

Yes dressing nicely does attract attention some times. But I do it anyway. I still dress to blend but I am usually on the nicer dressed end of the scale. And some time find guys checking me out until they see how ugly or is that masculine I look.