OK. Honestly, I knew I wasn't the only guy to get aroused by donning lingerie. But I was beginning to wonder if I was the only guy in HERE (these boards) to have such reactions
It's quite amazing what sexy lingerie, a full length mirror, dimmed lighting and a vivid imagination can do! Not that I need the mirror or the dimmed lighting to get in the mood, but you get the drift.
More often than not, those four ingredients come together to provide a powerful springboard that launches me into some highly erotic imagery. In those moments -as well as the overwhelming majourity of my dreams- I am participating as the woman (draw your own conclusions).
The toughest thing for me to get my head around insofar as how it all relates to my male self -if, indeed, it does at all- is that my femme self is not only a lesbian in those scenarios, she is also a very, shall we say, giving straight woman. Could it be that the male side of me harbours bisexual curiosities but needs my femme side to somehow "make it right" before I were to ever follow through on them?
Curioser and curioser!
All that said, though, I do/did incorporate outer wear as well and to that end, I'd go out with a friend or two and do the mall, dinner, movie, etc.
Lots of thought provoking posts in this thread!
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M _/!