What do you usually do when you crossdress?

General talk about CD/TGing and gender topics that aren't necessarily fun things we do while en femme, or for gender-driven discussions.

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Monica Frasier
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Post by Monica Frasier »

So nice to know I'm not the only who from whom a sexual reaction is so tightly woven into all of this!! :)

OK. Honestly, I knew I wasn't the only guy to get aroused by donning lingerie. But I was beginning to wonder if I was the only guy in HERE (these boards) to have such reactions ;)

It's quite amazing what sexy lingerie, a full length mirror, dimmed lighting and a vivid imagination can do! Not that I need the mirror or the dimmed lighting to get in the mood, but you get the drift.

More often than not, those four ingredients come together to provide a powerful springboard that launches me into some highly erotic imagery. In those moments -as well as the overwhelming majourity of my dreams- I am participating as the woman (draw your own conclusions).

The toughest thing for me to get my head around insofar as how it all relates to my male self -if, indeed, it does at all- is that my femme self is not only a lesbian in those scenarios, she is also a very, shall we say, giving straight woman. Could it be that the male side of me harbours bisexual curiosities but needs my femme side to somehow "make it right" before I were to ever follow through on them?

Curioser and curioser!

All that said, though, I do/did incorporate outer wear as well and to that end, I'd go out with a friend or two and do the mall, dinner, movie, etc.

Lots of thought provoking posts in this thread!

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Post by Andrea Elise »

Well said, Monica.

For me, a similar experience. When dressed I experience a constant "glow" of sexuality and it is a constant under current whether I chose to indulge myself or not.

The over all experience, for me, is one of deep comfort and a feeling of completeness.

Although I enjoy my appearance, at the same time, I am dissatisfied with it.

Oddly enough, I get much more done in my home than I do in drab.
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Absaroka
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Post by Absaroka »

Sometimes I fantasize about being a woman having sex with a guy. In those fantasies the guy however is always me.

Interestingly, my wife often has a similar fantasy. As I suspect do many couples, sometimes when we make love we fantasize about being each other, in the current act.

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Post by Francene »

as posted earlier, night time is "girl's time" for me. i just surf the net, watch tv, read a book or experimenting with make-up my sister gave me as a gift.
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Post by Sallee »

to the mall usually and maybe a movie and a drink at a local tg friendly bar
Just your run of the mill CD who gets out when she can and works to enjoy her fem self
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