Paula
I am glad you have sorted this out. I think you are wiser than I am - good luck for the future
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A very confusing experience
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I am glad that I called on the collective wisdom of the group, although I know that is what we are here for it is not always easy to bare ones soul.
I think in a way this is all part of growing up, self awareness does not come easily (remember what it was like being a teenager) and can only be gained through time, consideration and experience. I think one of the problems for me is that Paula is still very young, I feel that Paula is almost a separate person (or at least personality) who is emerging, and although the physical packaging may be in it's 50s her experience of life is limited to all too few days out. Also she is let out of the box so rarely that when she is free she will grab new experiences with both hands and revel in them.
I think in a way this is all part of growing up, self awareness does not come easily (remember what it was like being a teenager) and can only be gained through time, consideration and experience. I think one of the problems for me is that Paula is still very young, I feel that Paula is almost a separate person (or at least personality) who is emerging, and although the physical packaging may be in it's 50s her experience of life is limited to all too few days out. Also she is let out of the box so rarely that when she is free she will grab new experiences with both hands and revel in them.
Paula
Just because you don't believe it, that doesn't mean it's not true
Just because you don't believe it, that doesn't mean it's not true
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Alot of girls on here comented that the biggest issue is the unfaithfulness to your wife. I will just throw this out there: Have you ever read the sex advice column Savage Love? He makes a good point that I think I should share. If you've been in a sexless marriage for a long time then you have the right to talk to your spouse and get their blessings to pursue sex elsewhere. It doesn't mean leaving them or anything- but the preservation of the marriage by being honest to your spouse and retaining your sanity. NO ONE should have to remain forcefully celibate because of the whims of another, and if your spouse loves you then they need to understand that everyone has needs. Now, I'm not saying you need to go looking for sex with strangers- but it does allow you to safely look for some FWB- whatever sex or gender they may be.