Tell or not tell

General talk about CD/TGing and gender topics that aren't necessarily fun things we do while en femme, or for gender-driven discussions.

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Absaroka
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Oh good.....
everything under the sun is in tune
but the sun is eclipsed by the moon
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Re: Tell or not tell

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Well, thats an interesting topic and one that I had thought about many times (and still do). Early on I had written a letter to whoever would find my stuff (theres pictures involved also). if I kinda went to the great beyond. Then I told my sister, so she knows although shes 1200 miles away. Now with my SO living here (and maybe a marriage) I tore that letter up. My dad who I am a caregiver for knows also, but he can be a bit confused sometimes. LOL, he told my SO when she first started staying here on weekends that a lot of girls stayed with me.....and left their dresses :) But, it is a thought, we all get old, and I think its best to let someone know. The letter is the first and most important thing if you have to stay totally closeted, I've found dear relatives are NOT that bad but thats up to you. Good luck and you're not alone in those thoughts!
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