Submissive/Dom Impulse?

[Absaroka]

Often there is no relation, but for some it seems that being forced to cross dress constitutes permission to cross dress. I think it might feel that way for me, but I wouldn't want a steady diet of it.

[Anne Bonny]

I do find this an interesting topic. I remember the lioness on top and loving being loved. I really do enjoy submission especially when I am feminine and desiring to present as a female. I believe in equality in a relationship so turn about is only fair though I still enjoy wearing sexy night wear when making love and can take the lead but believe it is wrong for a GG to expect to always receive but never give. Perhaps this is too hot for this site but the same thing is true in everyday life why can't dominance and submissiveness be passed back and forth when desired. why can't we be made to feel special and feminine, our wives wearing the pants on occasion switching roles. I do believe the two dressing and this element go together otherwise why do we desire dressing so much if we aren't desiring all that goes with slipping into femininity? For me it is quite enjoyable to shed my masculinity and switching roles for me means taking on all that comes with it and makes it all so enjoyable. That said I am a pretty rough and tumble guy, middle age spread that has to be worked on, very rough dry and cracking skin on my hands from doing guy things I enjoy as well. I am not sure why people do not recognize that we are truly full spectrum people who want to experience the best of both worlds.

[Anne Bonny]

Oh and by Submission and Dom I am not talking BDSM, or whips and chains Submission/dom, but the ordinary roles husbands and wives take on every day in a relationship sex or no sex....

[Elly (SO)]

You're awesome Anne... If your post is too racy they'll take it down I agree with you-- from a woman's side. I like having a little more control now, but I also like being submissive, playtime with clothes doesn't always mean CD heck it could be a costume to help roleplaying - it's sexy either way... When your partner feels sexy, you reap the benefits! PS Those GG who take but won't give, I like to call em pillowprincesses & they're everywhere... Turn about is always fair play, and sub/dom cd/costume can really spice things up, as well as making it more meaningful

[Melissa J]

I believe for women at times, and I believe I would be able to slip into my "husbands" arms at times too and feel perfectly wonderful! Wouldn't it be wonderful to be admired, kissed, and yeald to their desire on occasion??

Personally, I find no greater pleasure then submitting to a man.
I don't think think this has any connection to cross dressing, because i have never been dressed in a sexual encounter..
But I do find great satisfaction being the object of a mans affection, and fulfilling his desires(within reason) maybe this sexual outlet is just an excuse for my dressing.. dominant or submissive, pleasing a man just gets me off.
To be dressed and in bed with a man would be my ultimate fantasy come true..
but to each her own :p

[Elly (SO)]

Melissa that was beautifully stated!! I can relate to you on this 100%!

For you, the right man will embrace & love every part of you -- stockings, heels, or nude

[MichelleZ]

Oh and by Submission and Dom I am not talking BDSM, or whips and chains Submission/dom, but the ordinary roles husbands and wives take on every day in a relationship sex or no sex....

Geesh, Now you tell me!!!

Went 20 miles down the wrong road