Getting hit on by men

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Re: Getting hit on by men

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These are the kind of topics I really learn from! Some great responses from everyone.

Victoria, whether man or woman, we all like to receive compliments. Women get more unwanted comments in a day than most men in a lifetime. Lewd and crude is no way to introduce one's self to a lady, but it happens all the time. The cd/tg may seek acceptance as a woman by passing as such. Having a man say something complimentary is a special thrill.

Unfortunately, there are men that view the cd as sexually promiscuous ('tranny chasers' is the correct term) and some cd's truly are. This was a troubling discovery when I first explored what cross dressing is all about. Many sites were for hook ups, promises of making you the woman you want to be.

I can't believe I'm using this term, oh well. For the cis-gender woman we have lived through all kinds of comments and filter out the ones that are offensive. How we dress and places we go reflect on the lifestyle we wish to live. Biker chicks don't hang out at Applebee's before 10 pm. nor do I visit biker bars, (any more) as a for instance.

You'll have to judge for yourself, Victoria, if a 'hit' was in earnest intended for an attractive woman or an easy target. On the internet, guys will make advances on just about anything still breathing.
As for how an average woman feels, you all should first define how an average man feels. There really is no average woman other than a statistical impossibility and probably a bitch anyway.

Eileen
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