Hi Stephanie,
Good points. How did things go when you told your mom?
My mom just got me too...
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Becca well done in being blessed 
in being gifted 
in being different.
At least you have accepted and can live with being a Janegirl even if your mother can't understand it.
It sure is never going to go away and why should you wish it to its a part of being who YOU are.
Enjoy being a girl when you feel like it its normal even if your Mom does not agree. She should be happy to have both a son and daughter in one person she needs only to buy on brithday gift and she could choose a nice pink pleated skirt for you to wear for Christmas.
Live your Life and enjoy being girlie your a long time dead.
in being gifted in being different.At least you have accepted and can live with being a Janegirl even if your mother can't understand it.
It sure is never going to go away and why should you wish it to its a part of being who YOU are.
Enjoy being a girl when you feel like it its normal even if your Mom does not agree. She should be happy to have both a son and daughter in one person she needs only to buy on brithday gift and she could choose a nice pink pleated skirt for you to wear for Christmas.
Live your Life and enjoy being girlie your a long time dead.
Call me a Janegirl because a Janegirl is what I am!
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Beauty:
For years, I was able to discuss all things with my mother. However, I my mother and I had only several conversations about my dressing.
She indicated that she always knew about it, but never confronted me about it. She indicated that she would not support it nor condem it, hopping the I would find my own way.
However, I have had a great deal of conversations with an older sister who has provided support and guidence to me.
My sister and I have shared all things, together. Time as being Stephanie being the most important.
Early on, she and I would have discussions as to why I dress, do I feel that I need to be a woman, Do I want to be a woman. How long have I been doing it, who taught me to apply make up.
How did I get the courage to go shopping, enfeme. How do they treat you when you go shopping. Are you comfortable with your sexuality, Are you gay etc.
This sister has been the most influential on my development as a son, brother and now her sister. She welcomes the visits of Stephanie and has seen as more of Stephanie in the past year or so than she has seen of her brother.
For years, I was able to discuss all things with my mother. However, I my mother and I had only several conversations about my dressing.
She indicated that she always knew about it, but never confronted me about it. She indicated that she would not support it nor condem it, hopping the I would find my own way.
However, I have had a great deal of conversations with an older sister who has provided support and guidence to me.
My sister and I have shared all things, together. Time as being Stephanie being the most important.
Early on, she and I would have discussions as to why I dress, do I feel that I need to be a woman, Do I want to be a woman. How long have I been doing it, who taught me to apply make up.
How did I get the courage to go shopping, enfeme. How do they treat you when you go shopping. Are you comfortable with your sexuality, Are you gay etc.
This sister has been the most influential on my development as a son, brother and now her sister. She welcomes the visits of Stephanie and has seen as more of Stephanie in the past year or so than she has seen of her brother.
Stephanie
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I must agree with my sisters. Don't give up, especially if crossdressing is something that you truly enjoy. Your mother may not agree with your decision to dress up at this point, but with enough love and understanding given to her, she will eventually come around. Know your facts, and be ready to give her that information that she needs to understand. Best of luck to you. Hugs and kisses. Steffi