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I crossdress in private my wife and family also my friends don't know.If I was to be caught dressed in female clothes I don't know what I would do I live in fear of being caught out.
Have any of you girls been caught and what happened.

Not yet and I've been doing this a lot for 5 years. Although I have had some close calls.

Absaroka

I was never caught but 2 years ago I got to the point that I had to tell my wife and worry about what would happen afterwards. At first she was not too happy but did tolerate it. Now she not only tolerates it but supports me. She has even joined my Tri-Ess chapter as as SO member.

Oh yes a couple of times, first by my mother when I was 14 and about 5 months ago by my son who walked into the house one afternoon.

I was never caught to my knowledge. But my wife did find my femme things before we were married. Of course it was not hard as she just had to open up my dresser drawers. But I have had some close calls with the kids.

kim
joe in a skirt

Caught by my mother, but she forgot all about it. When I came out to her a few yrs ago, she was very supportive.

Told my wife, so no being caught there. Also told the kids. My son said he already knew, no problem.

Caught by a secretary at work one year. She enjoyed it.

My friends and family have known about me for a long time so thankfully there's no "getting caught" issue.

I don't believe I've ever been caught, at least not that I know of. But like probably most of us, I've have some really close calls. One never knows just how fast one can undresss in a hurry.

Back in my early days of dressing I decided to have a dressup vacation at Noosa ( a sub-tropical beach on the east coast) , I was living with my parents at the time and it was very restrictive in what I could do so I was desperate for my own space.

I arrived at Noosa at around 10:30 / 11:00AM and booked into a motel room , I was desperate to get dressed after so many months of supression so It was a case of emptying my suitcase on the bed and putting on the first femme thing I could find.
I put on a pair of light blue see-through panties , no need for wig in those days because I had long hair with a fringe.
I had not put away one clothing item when suddenly the door burst open , I was stunned to see two young women staring at me , I quickly made a grab for my pants but where were they?
The women looked a bit stunned but stayed their ground and appologized , they explained that they had not finished servicing the room and that the motel clerk should not have given me the keys for the room until the normal earliest check-in time of 11:30.
I found my pants and said that I'll go for walk for half hour so they can finish cleaning.

I was home alone one afternoon about 4 years back, the wife was at work, though she knew of my dressing, the kids where at school, the yougest still in high school the older in her first year of college,( a local Jr college). So I picked out a nice short skirt, tight blouse, hose with small diamond shape pattern, 4 inch heels, & my favorite wig. Even though I was not planning on going anywhere I did my make up for the full effect.
I then bussied myself around the house doing things like laundry, cleaning, playing on the computer etc. I sat down at lunch time for a cup of tea and just as I settled on the couch I heard a key in the lock, as I got to my feet it was too late, the door was open and my oldest daughter was looking right at me. As i walked to my room to change she said "Nice outfit dad". She never said anything to my wife and has never made any other coments to me about it, but I sure she knows I still dress up

Phyliss, I'm sure I would have just died. But then when you think about it, what else could you have done. I'm glad your daughter took it as well (as it seems) as she did. You must have a totally cool daughter though to say
" nice outfit dad". Hehehe!

Merinda,
Shocking to say the least. This is one of the reasons I put the safety lock on the door all the time.

There was an older post for this. In my case now it is hard to get caught considering I will wear fem clothes when not at work just because. My friends all know and do not care. My girlfriend loves the fact that I am comfortable enough with my self to wear what I want.

Phyliss, if I thought my kids would take it as well as yours did, them I believe I would come out to the world. My secret is for them mostly.
My wife has been sovery supportive,but I know my kids would freak out..
Best of luck

There was already a thread about this topic - i guess long time ago.

I was caught by my (now ex-)wife one night, when she was out with a friend, but returned earlier as expected. Well - we had a lot of talks afterwards and this revealed that she was mostly concerned about my sexual orientation. She was more or less accepting then... (But this was not the reason to separate from her).

My GF already was "suspicious" about my CDing/TG-being, when I told her about it. This happened even before we started out partnership and she is very supportive.