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Was anyone here ever made to wear femenine clothes as punishment while younger?

Oh yes sweetheart at the age of 14 when I got busted big time by my mother.
To long a story to tell but trust me when I say no amount of tears and I am sorrys or I promise not to do it again didn't help a lick. Yes I payed the price.

That's what first started me on my journey, although I had hints of being a CD a year earlier. My second grade teacher would punish boys in her class for acting out of line by making them wear head scarves through the rest of the day. I actually never stepped out of line, but the combination of emotions I went through watching that punishment be doled out to my friends (fear, disbelief, sense that something was way out of whack, desire, realization this was forbidden fruit) came to a head when I tried on one of my mom's scarves, then lipstick, then, .... you get the picture.

It took me a long time to accept that it was all right. At first I pretended I was punishing myself, but eventually I realized that was only a pretext to do something I found deeply satisfying. The pretension of guilt compounded the problem of overcoming the sense of shame that most of us have felt until we came to terms with who we are.

Grace.

No. When I told my mother, or tried to, about who I was, I got yelled at, told that people like that were evil and "not beloved of God" and other Baptist bullshit all of which made me hide and cry.

Being made to wear girls clothes would have meant acceptance, not punishment, nothing sexual in it or anything, just relief at being who I should have been.

I really don't get why anyone would want to be made to dress like a girl as punishment, unless it is a matter of guilt over sexual arousal?

I never understood punishing CD'ing with CD'ing. Seems to me it's something along the lines of "Come home late again, will you? This is the LAST time! I'm moving your curfew two hours later! That'll teach you!!!!"

Hi Phylis,

I wasn't, but there must be a lot of people who were. "Petticoating" is a widespread sexual interest:

http://uncyclopedia.wikia.com/wiki/Petticoating

and if you google the term it brings up numerous websites and references.

It seems ultra-macho men and the women who subscribe to their version of reality felt strongly that there could be no punishment worse than forcing a boy into femme attire, making him a "sissy," etc. It was supposed to teach him a lesson: never, ever in his life would he dare make THAT mistake again. But like all such things, for some it had the opposite effect, creating a lifetime fascination.

And after all, those of the ultra-macho persuasion have long been shown to have, um, insecurities of their own concerning gender. (Ah, that fascination!)

But then perhaps their parents punished them that way, and so on back into the mists of time ...

Love, Robyn Katie

I seem to recall a school teacher at Primary school (thats grades prep to grade 6 Aust) threatening the boys to tie their hair in pigtails with ribbons .
I can't recall him ever carrying out the threat though.

Kiefer Sutherland apparently had to wear a dress on the David Letterman TV show a few nights ago - because he lost a bet. Then he had the nerve to say it was the hardest most humiliating experience of his life.

He should walk a mile in our shoes!

Hugs,

Bernice

No I was never forced to wear girls clothes, I wore my sisters dresses and skirts completely through choice.
But I can see how forcing a boy who wasn't a natural CD'r to wear a dress and panties would be a punishment as well as an extreme source of embarrassment.

When I was in primary school I had a teacher who regularly threatened to get a skirt from the girls school and put it on misbehaving boys. He never did it. But even at the tender age of six or seven I could not see the fairness in forcing an innocent girl to go without her skirt just to punish a boy. I have since found out that the teacher had been actively involved in armed rebellion against the British in the 1920's. Today he would be called a terrorist. I would not have considered him to be particularly macho. He would end every school day by telling us a different fairytale of some sort which I am sure he made up himself.

Bernice wrote:Kiefer Sutherland apparently had to wear a dress on the David Letterman TV show a few nights ago - because he lost a bet. Then he had the nerve to say it was the hardest most humiliating experience of his life.

I youtube'd this video, im a fan of Kiefer Sutherland and the 24shows, but this comment did not make me a happy chappy.

He had to wear it on the Leno show previously.

Martina wrote:When I was in primary school I had a teacher who regularly threatened to get a skirt from the girls school and put it on misbehaving boys.

Pardon me Mr Teacher , please advise me of what I need to do wrong to earn myself a whole years worth of your punnishment?

PLEASE punish me by making me wear something feminine...

Yes, what a cool question. How to be *just bad enough* so we could wear femme all the time, never have to dress masc, yet not be arrested, beaten up, etc.

I think it would make a great board game, kind of like Parcheesi. You start naked, throw dice, and when you win you can put on panties. Then a bra or cami. As you advance, you keep putting on more femme duds. Special squares allow you to attend a girls' prep school, use the girls' locker room, go to the Royal Ball in your strapless evening gown, etc. If you land on square #33 you have to spend a whole turn in male attire, square 17 gets you razzed by teenage girls, etc. The ultimate goal: you are an ingenue in Hollywood, or a princess adored by all the world, or you marry the princess (of course all states permit lesbian marriage), or pick your own favorite Happy Ending.

Call it Femme Fatale. I'm ready to play!

Love, Robyn Katie