Being a girl

General talk about CD/TGing and gender topics that aren't necessarily fun things we do while en femme, or for gender-driven discussions.

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Kittie
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Being a girl

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I am now dressed, as I am most evenings, in bra, fitted t-shirt top, skirt, panties & knee highs. I really feel what I have always been. I am a girl. I think that way. I am missing my earrings tonigt!
How many of you feel that way when en femme.
I always sleep en-femme with short or long nightie.
My tee-shirt since it is designed to fit tightly improves my boob profile. I fill a B!
My wife is happy with it
I would love to share your views girls!
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Johanna
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I know what you mean

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When dressed I become obsessed about my appearence, including my makeup and clothing. I need frequent trips to the ladies room to ensure that my eye-liner has not smeared, or my teeth are not lipstick stained. When shopping I love trying to accessorize and can spend a long time trying on different outfits until I find the right one.

This behavior is very different from my male persona. En-drab, I hate shopping and am rather careless about my dress and appearence.

Thus, I think you are on to something.
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Post by Carol Ann »

Johanna,
I am always aware of my appearence and my bad hadit is always fooling with my hair. My mom told me once a "women pride is her hair". (--)
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Post by Davita »

DRAB is just a uniform for me to get through the times when I cannot be the girl I am. I don't give my uniform a second thought when I go to the closet. I take the next shirt in line and the next pair of pants.

When I get to be me, the closet becomes one of my favorite places to visit. I get to look through all my choices and decide. Oh but how hard it is to decide sometimes. :) I love being a woman.

When I'm DRAB, I always have to worry about how much Davita shows through in conversations, in the way I move and how I feel. When I'm en fem, I relax; I stop all that worrying and just get to be myself.
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Post by DanteCarrie (FTM) »

not really.
I feel like me a girl when I'm femmed up but then again even though i feel stronger and more masculine when CDing i just feel like a butch girl. I only feel like a man when I'm alone fantising that I'm a man when i can't see myself.
But then again thats cas I'm never a very typical girl in my nature even when fem I'm a sexual predetor who hates shopping and i don't care about my weight.

I do feel more relaxed confident and care less about my appearance when butch but i always care if i look ugly.
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Post by Patti D »

I always sleep in fem, except when the grandkids are over, I try to stay dressed as much as I can.
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Post by Absaroka »

I don't think I feel like a girl but I do feel sometimes like I am being who I really am. On the other hand I sometimes feel that way about my guy clothes too.

I've never been sure what words to use to describe this.

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Post by Lacy Mitchell »

some times i feel real girly other times not. i always wear panties but i don't have to really dress up all the way to get that special feeling almost a mental satisfaction or relaxation.
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Diane Light
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Post by Diane Light »

To me there is no half way dressing unless I have to become male to work my job. Even then, toenails are painted, legs always shaved as well as arms, chest, underarms and pussy, wearing panties, female socks, as much as I can fit in.

At home I am fully feminized. Nothing of Dan is evident.

With the help of my hypnosis tapes, I feel fully feminized and live as a female at home. Voice changes also. I find myself not watching the same TV programs even. My home is clean, may calla girlfriend to come over and chat over tea or coffee, etc.

I feel I am a female that let's the male side come out when it needs to, and not vice versa.

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Re: Being a girl

Post by DonnaT »

Kittie wrote:I am now dressed, as I am most evenings, in bra, fitted t-shirt top, skirt, panties & knee highs. I really feel what I have always been. I am a girl. I think that way. . .
How many of you feel that way when en femme.
Not me.

I'm me, even when dressed enfemme. I may act a little different when out, but I'm still me.

Beside, having never been a girl, I wouldn't know how it feels to be a girl.

I think if I tried to act like I think a girl might act, when dressed at home, my wife would not be as accepting. So I am just me.
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Post by Karren Hutton »

I'm just another guy in a dress!! And my happiness is independent of the clothing I wear!
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Debra Russell
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Post by Debra Russell »

I have told my wife many times I would trade places with her just to see how it feels. I feel femm at times - but how does that feel? we can only imagine. I like to shop, I told my wife 40 yrs ago and she was a little surprised untill it all came out that I like to dress too :) I wear panties every day and keep my nails longer and trimmed, looking forward to dressing and going out and feeling very femm. I do act different in drab but notice a long period of gentelness after being dresses.
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