I love helping people... Over at MakeupTalk I help them every day with makeup advice.. And I've personally helped a number of crossdressers with hair and clothing donations but today was totally different...
This morning I get a PM from a new member on MUT titled "I need your help". A gg... And I'm thinking her photos won't load or something forum related but she says that she had talked to some crossdressers on another forum and they had directed her to me... The reason... Breast development and what to use to enhance cleavage! She had nothing up top and can't afford implants.. So who better to ask than someone who does this for a hobby? Lol.
Needless to say I was flattered... So I tell her about the what I know and how I use the Chic Shaper and silicone pushup pads... and we go back and forth with PM all afternoon.. Really a plesant lady.. I told her I have an extra pair of silicone pushup pads and she wanted to pay me but I told her that she can have them.. She sent me her address and she live not 30 minutes away! Lol. I also told her about soy and my vacume breast enhancement experiments and she thought that might work for her..
So I'm sending her some things tommorow... I love making friends... And I just feel fantastic that I can help a fellow cup size challenged person.. Especially a gg.. And I hope is works well for her...
Just thought I'd share... :):)
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CD'ers helping a GG doesn't sound so odd to me at all. I have joked on the chat boards that you ladies know more about what it feels like to be a lady than I do, I'm sure. A CD'er has studied feminine and appreciates it, where some GG's take the art form that it can be for granted just cuz, you know, we got boobies and they are suppose to do whatever it is they do. *looks down* Come on gals, do your stuff! *poke* (hmmm....I don't feel more feminine...)
Ever since I have been on the forum and just paying more attention to CDing in general I can say I have been inspired. I have been putting on make-up more and dressing a little nicer, and wanting to learn how to do my make-up better. If I don't know how to be a proper woman, how can I expect it of anyone else? ;D
Finally caught an episode of RuPaul's Drag U yesterday. Rather than having Drag Queens teaching each other, the series has them teaching GGs (the one I saw was 3 GGs that were pretty tough, they might have other GG "stereotypes, I do not know).
We need to teach Dolores how to dress slutty for halloween? Lol. Is that the new RuPaul show? Where DQ's go out and give gg's make overs?
I'm still amazed how many women have the same issues we have... Things we deal with daily... Facial hair.. Too much body hair... Low brows... Concealing imperfections... Thin hair... Wigs.... I'm always fielding questions on those subjects and more.. Its really a fun second job!
I've been chatting online with my small breasted friend today... I sent her a couple old silicone push up pads today and I'm going to let her use my vacuum breast enhancing device I built.. To try.. She is a AAA cup.... And says anything at all would be a dream... Hope it works for her like it did for me..
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Now now, my mother did a pretty good job of teaching me how to dress like a proper sexpot- but for some reason these past couple of years and some extra pounds make me a bit shy. Make-up though has never been my friend. Heels however, I wear 6 inch heels everywhere I go and shop exclusively at a store that happens to specialize in CD styles. They have lovely shoes!! I just need some encouragement. I ignored my mothers pleas to have my wear concealer and foundation all those years, and now I wish I had paid attention. Dammit.
Anyways, yes, girls have to deal with all the same things. I don't think we girls and boys are *too* different. Some of us need more make-up and some of us need less- waxing, plucking, tucking, arranging, it's one big magic show.
LOL despite disliking the girlier things such as makeup etc when i want to for my partner i think i do it pretty well but in the style i like (i dunno i guess you could call it goth prostitute)
I'm sure i am not as good at femininity as the CDs here LOl i mean i don't use or know how to use foundation it makes my skin feel sticky and i slice myself up when i try to shave (i should really do that i haven''t in weeks and weeks) but i do prefer the way i do things but I think I'll give Karren a PM if i ever want tips for a special femmy look on an occasion or something.
dolores from what you told me your style is super hot just the way you are mate xxx
PM away DanteCarrie!! Lol. Well just an update... She received what I sent her and is ecstatic.. The push up pads actually give her cleavage the first time in her life... And she started using the vacuum device... Both her and her boyfriend are really appreciative... I feel so good I could help them... life is good!!
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Now that's what it is all about... just people helping people. None of the predudice crap we hear about.... I have yet to experience any myself...but score one for the CDer.
Yeah!!! That's what its all about!! I have more female friends on facebook than crossdressers.. And chat way more with them.. Person to person.. And they all know but no one really cares... Every so often when were talking about our personal lives... one of their friends chimes in "Karren has a wife??". Lol. Yeah!!
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A wife of a TS woman started to ask me the details of my makeup and ended up to ask some advice to herself. It was both confused and flattering moment: I have done my makeup seriously only about three years and I think she has had some more time to practice . However I think she has just strated thinking makeup and girly things more interesting after meeting us crossdrerssers.
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. However I think she has just strated thinking makeup and girly things more interesting after meeting us crossdrerssers.