Coming out about cross-dressing to your family

Kittie · Post by **Kittie** » Sun Feb 12, 2012 9:26 am

I am out to my wife. I got caught out a few years ago! I need to come-out to my children. How do I do it. Cross-Dressing is a normal act to me. My wife accepts my cross-dressing.

Susan · Post by **Susan** » Sun Feb 12, 2012 11:20 am

Kittie

How old are your children?

Best wishes

Post by **DonnaT** » Sun Feb 12, 2012 2:30 pm

Kittie wrote: I need to come-out to my children.

Might I ask, why do you need to come out?

I told my son face-to-face, because he still lives at home, and he's fine with it.

Told my daughter by sending her a photo. Didn't need to, but my wife kept egging me on. She's not asked me anything about it.

Davita · Post by **Davita** » Sun Feb 12, 2012 7:38 pm

Ro and I went through the coming out issue ages ago. It can be so very complicated and so I wrote it all up on my website. It's too long to post here so let me provide the page, http://davita-farley.webs.com/how_to/tel_chld.html. I hope it helps. It won't give you an answer, but will help gather your thoughts and maybe give you a few things more to think about.

Good Luck!

April Rose · Post by **April Rose** » Mon Feb 13, 2012 7:44 pm

Kittie, it really comes down to: How well do you know your son? Does he seem open minded, or is he strictly conventional? Is you relationship cordial, or adversarial? Has he reveal any personal opinions, vis a vis LGBT issues?

Post by **KimberlyS** » Tue Feb 14, 2012 12:17 am

Well I hope it goes better for you than it did for me. My ex tried to use my CDing for black mail for our divorce. So I told our kids. Thought it was better coming from me than my ex. She was not happy about it at all. My daughter already did not like me at this point because of a lot of other mental issues my ex was pulling in the last years and continues. My son does not want to talk about it but we talk about other things and I get to see him.

Kittie · Post by **Kittie** » Wed Feb 15, 2012 2:48 am

Susan wrote:Kittie

How old are your children?

Best wishes

I have twin sons aged 38 & a daughter nearly 40

Kittie · Post by **Kittie** » Wed Feb 15, 2012 2:51 am

DonnaT wrote:
Kittie wrote: I need to come-out to my children.
Might I ask, why do you need to come out?

I told my son face-to-face, because he still lives at home, and he's fine with it.

Told my daughter by sending her a photo. Didn't need to, but my wife kept egging me on. She's not asked me anything about it.

I would feel more at ease with it. My daughter knows that someimes I unisex dress with tops

Kittie · Post by **Kittie** » Wed Feb 15, 2012 2:53 am

Davita wrote:Ro and I went through the coming out issue ages ago. It can be so very complicated and so I wrote it all up on my website. It's too long to post here so let me provide the page, http://davita-farley.webs.com/how_to/tel_chld.html. I hope it helps. It won't give you an answer, but will help gather your thoughts and maybe give you a few things more to think about.

Good Luck!

I read your website. It is helpful

Kittie · Post by **Kittie** » Wed Feb 15, 2012 2:53 am

Davita wrote:Ro and I went through the coming out issue ages ago. It can be so very complicated and so I wrote it all up on my website. It's too long to post here so let me provide the page, http://davita-farley.webs.com/how_to/tel_chld.html. I hope it helps. It won't give you an answer, but will help gather your thoughts and maybe give you a few things more to think about.

Good Luck!

Kittie · Post by **Kittie** » Wed Feb 15, 2012 2:56 am

DonnaT wrote:
Kittie wrote: I need to come-out to my children.
Might I ask, why do you need to come out?

I told my son face-to-face, because he still lives at home, and he's fine with it.

Told my daughter by sending her a photo. Didn't need to, but my wife kept egging me on. She's not asked me anything about it.

My family are wide spread over the UK. They skype me and I wouild feel more at ease in being myself & femme dressed when I can

Anne Bonny · Post by **Anne Bonny** » Wed Feb 15, 2012 10:34 am

I really do believe we are all just human and we as men have a right to be liberated and free to express who we are even if it varies from time to time and still have every right and expectation of being fully and completely embraced and accepted for who we are at ALL times. Society has no choice but to evolve and to make a space for us. Some may grumble but we always grumble about something afterall we are human. They need to just get over it and move on.

Kittie · Post by **Kittie** » Mon Nov 19, 2012 2:54 pm

I am hoping to come out to my daughter tonight. If I am brave enough when she skypes me

Davita · Post by **Davita** » Mon Nov 19, 2012 5:30 pm

Be brave, doll. You were brave enough to have her and raise her. Should be okay since you did things right with her.

Good luck tonight.

Kittie · Post by **Kittie** » Tue Nov 20, 2012 10:43 am

Davita wrote:Be brave, doll. You were brave enough to have her and raise her. Should be okay since you did things right with her.

Good luck tonight.

i decided I must tell and wrote a well-composed e-mail to her today & I am waiting t he response

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