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For those of you who know me and of my feelings that I want be a woman, or at least live as one, and the roller coaster ride I have been living with my wife, this won't come as a surprise to you.

Recently my wife has stated that she feels we are more like house mates than husband & wife and has asked me to move out of the master bedroom. I had to remove all my clothes ( drab ) and stuff into the third bedroom and sleep in there. She then stated that we would live as house mates and do our own thing and that I could dress whenever I wanted too and she wouldn't complain.

Here is where my half victory comes in. Although she isn't totally accepting of me dressing as the woman I feel I should be she is allowing me to do so.

I generally work Mon. - Thurs. and when I get home I can change into the woman I feel Ishould be. Now, even though I can dress everyday I don't do itall the time. But from Thursday after work when I get home I clean up ad become CharLee. I paint my finger nails and don't remove te polish until Sunday night, I stay en femme the whole weekend, never having any male clothes touch my body. I keep my breasts forms on 24 hours a day and even sleep with them on my body. I enjoy sleeping in my night gown and feeling my breasts there, then in the morning, waking up and putting on my bra. Then choosing what outfit I will wear for the day.

So for 3 1/2 days & nights I get to be the woman I feel and want to be without any negative reaction from my wife. It is such a wonderful feeling that I only wish I could do it 24/7 but will take what I can get for now.

My hope is that someday my wife will come around and let me live my life as the woman I feel I should be.

Good luck girl! I'm glad you get to spend even more time as the woman you ought to be.

Hi CharLee. That sounds like a pretty good victory to me. Wish I could get to spend half the week dressed!!! Well done hun!
I'm jealous

The only shadow on the horizon is, since she now considers you to be housemates, what if she meets up with some other guy? What if she brings him home? How would you feel about that? (Sorry to bring this up but I think you need to consider it, if you haven't already done so.)

good for you charlee! enjoy your exploration

Anna, she won't be doing that for many reasons. But mainly because she doesn't want another guy and the family would be on her case if she did dump me .

Char, sounds like another step forward.

Leeza

I hope you feel as good as I do when dressing everyday

For those 3 1/2 days I certainly do Carol. I look forward to Thursday every week

CharLee My situation is simular to yours in that we both now have our own bedrooms and my wife says that if I want to dress then she accepts this side of me but not in front of her while she is around or our son that now lives with us. So I am now a night time dresser till about 10 am then back to the male outer covering for the day.
I find this works quite well without causing any upset she has seen me a few times dressed and has been ok with me so it is my way of expressing myself for a little while.