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Im a closet cd but very intrested in life after death and spiritual influences from spirits, I may self have been very influenced by a femenin spirit a mother of my grandmother.
In the movie ghost Sam is using the characther Woppie Goldberg to communicate with his GF, have any had such experinces?

Hi Erica--
I think that "Anita" was a women I knew in another existence, somewhere. There is a psychic who does consultation for one of our local police forces, and she's done very credible work for them. She said that Anita and I were very close, and that "she" is glad to be back with me. Whatever anyone may think of that, there is a component of my girl self that is not the "me" that I ordinarily recognize, and is somewhat independent. It's not like what I would think of being possessed, but it is like having someone else's will present at times. But my will is also there; it's not being overridden.

I've only had a spirit contact once, with my Grandma, with a message concerning her daughter, my Mom.

Many times people die and they miss their bodies my grandma mother have been near me since 7 year old, I lived in the house she lived and her spirit was there, have you seen in the movie ghost how spirits go in and out of woppie goldbergs characther, you can feel them many times women spirits get attacked to us and they want us to make us become women that is why we feel like women often erica

Erica Bern wrote:Many times people die and they miss their bodies my grandma mother have been near me since 7 year old, I lived in the house she lived and her spirit was there, have you seen in the movie ghost how spirits go in and out of woppie goldbergs characther, you can feel them many times women spirits get attacked to us and they want us to make us become women that is why we feel like women often erica

We are spiritual influenced more then we know, first I could not understand what happen to me, then I started to become spiritually and see the femenin spirit and even dream about her, I started to read many books after a out of body experince I had, the I realized that there was a women spirit that try to possess me and dominate my life, I started to pray and repent to change my attitude and it helped me but the spirit is still there trying to take over my body.

Hmmm, I think there may be some reality and validity on this femm spirit concept. I don't believe in possession, but I do think close family can hang around and make their presence known. I had a reading from a psychic in Portland several years ago, and asked about Gina, origins and such The answer was: you were female in a recent past life, lived in NYC (and kind of a bad girl) and that was the link. She told me I would never be outed also.

So, possibly...but no certainty in the concept in my opinion. I think genetics and personality type have a lot of cause, and upbringing, and early influences.

I am hugely sceptical about all this, but then I refer you to my tag line below. I do believe the Bible and there are explicit warnings against indulging in spiritualism there, so maybe there is something in it, but best avoided.

I too avoid anything having to do with this for the same reasons as Paula. But I do feel that feminine and masculine are descriptions of something sometimes larger than gender, and that I am influenced by the differing aspects of the world God created.

I'm for the most part an atheist, who believes in what can be explained, as I in the field of social work, and Psychology. I also like Buddhism, as it is similar to social work, and promotes my belief of non-violence. I find that my beliefs differ from most women, which make it difficult to someone, aside from my crossdressing desires. I prefer the word spirituality as opposed to religion, and feel very connected to the environment. As far as feminine spirits, I really think the Moon has a lot of influence on women, and always feel comfortable looking up at it, as it provides strength too. As for the after life, big question, and I'm not sure about Heaven, or Karma, but if you are happy, help others, and follow your own instincts, or female intuition.