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When you are dressed and feeling feminine that girl in you shining through that there was someone there to take you in their arms and kiss you? For those of you who have a spouse or SO I'm not suggesting that it be someonen other than them. I've never had my wife just look at me when I'm dressed and do that to me. Also, I know she likes to get flowers, and sometimes for no reason, just to get them. I have always wanted that for myself to.

Is it just me, am I alone in feeling these things.

that sounds wonderful. my very supportive gf hasen't really bought me anything as a surprise. we go shopping together, me in drab, and look and sometimes try on woman's cloths, but never her picking out something for me by herself. bobby

It is a lonely existence that we sometime tread Sara Beth. There is nothing more that I would like is for my wife to hug and kiss me when I am CDing. My wife accepts my dressing but is still somewhat cautious. Small steps and one day it will happen. As I have not come out to anyone else I would not expect to be hugged or kissed by others however it would be very pleasing and satisfying when it does happen. Requal.

Considering that i take a feminine interest in romance and in being wooed, taken out, flowers and candy, etc., yes Do I get this indulged as often as I'd like? No, but a lot of women are in the same boat with their husbands and SO's. Seems to go with the territory.

Hi.

Had to think about this a bit, so i can only relate about Jos and i,.

As was married for 35 years, known each other some 40.years so yes we did do the touch and cuddle and kiss,

now of cause we are not married , ( anuuld ) yet we have not lived together for oh must be 2 years,
okay i still have been taking Jos out shoping & seeing our daughter just the same plus her 4 grand kids, when i leave to come back home we hug & kiss before i leave ether in the flat or out on the street, so whats changed , we live apart im a female so is Jos still do things to gether. as before.

So i cant say i ever wished for any thing other than what we have, friendship both being women still close as with a long history together,

...noeleena...

When the CDing started to get intense again a few years ago, I kept getting this fantasy that I was being taken out as a woman by a man. I could never work out just what that was, but thinking about Sarah Ann's response, it does seem like the classic female "romantic" fantasy.

After that I did start having sexual fantasies, but I think they're about something else really - not what this thread is about.

I never got the urge to be taken out by a guy. I don't really like men.

I AM a hugger tho! I'm lucky enough to have had spur of the moment gifts from my wife and girly stuff from my kids too. It's even made me cry before as its 'complete acceptance'.

The physical stuff just isn't good for me, but a tiny present/gesture and a hug is purely emotional. That's where its at for me...

Yes, definitely.

While my "inclinations" may be different from many here, I think it's safe to say we all want to have those tender, passionate moments. It's been so long for me, I yearn for a warm loving hug and kiss.

Before I came to terms with who I am, I sought passion from my ex wife but she was cold and distant very soon after we were married, and especially more so after or daughter was born. I thought it was my fault ...like she could sense something was different about me even though I had put my CDing on hold during those years. I would give anything for even one night of true passion. I could hug and kiss all night long.

When all is said and done, don't we all want someone to share romance with?

Thanks Sarah Beth for posting this subject. Just the type of thing I came here to learn about.
Women hug and sometimes kiss to express deep friendship. Certainly, guys don't do much beyond a 'bro' hug.
When my guy needs to get his girl on, I tend to give him space to do what he needs to do. I'm not totally comfortable, yet, not really repulsed either. He looks good and passable, I still see his face though. Possibly, I have been giving too much space. He may read my indifference as non acceptance.
Next time 'she' goes out, I will make the effort to compliment on appearance and full embrace. A kiss without messing up makeup. It wouldn't bother or harm me one bit, other than that we are both big breasted. That will be a weird feeling on my part.

Eileen

Thank you Eileen for those thoughts. Something to think about.

When I started coming out, someone told me of a another girl that lives locally. Having been given her email address, I dropped her a line and we swapped some cautious emails until we had "Susses" each other out.

Then I invited her to my house. On the appointed night, she turned up with a bunch of flowers for me! I was so chuffed - I nearly burst into tears! Nobody had ever bought me flowers! That was some 18 months ago and we are really good friends now.

Because of the effect this had on me - when I go to other girls houses, I always make a point of taking flowers. They not expensive and they make such a difference!

Hugs Ginny xx

Definitely, for me. Depending on the mood, it could be one of two contexts: a romantic setting with my (future) lady friend where I'm the one being treated like a princess, or a quiet social setting just having a girls' day with one or two close and trusted female confidants. Both situations are very touchy-feely with plenty of kisses and cuddles, which for me is a very big gesture of acceptance and love.


Re-reading the original post, though, I think you really just mean the first context, but I yearn for the second one just as much.

my gf has never really been hugged by a taller woman and finds it amusing that my boobs are above hers.

That's funny Bobby! My guy as woman (sorry, trying to keep his femme personality confidential) was going out tonight. Showing my support, which is in earnest, I gave her a big hug. Now, women do embrace each other as friends. This embrace was with my soul mate and lover, but with breasts. It did feel rather weird. And she's taller, especially in heels.
Oh well, I can walk in them better any day.

Eileen

I was at Tracks in Denver this past May when there were a couple of girls from RuPaul's Drag race on stage. I met a really nice guy that I just melted for, I wanted him to take me a kiss me! I had to leave before our encounter had a chance for that kiss tho.