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For a week I thought I was drifting away, but it seems like I am only tacking.
Luv,
eva

Well Eva, what ever is good for you is what is important but I sure am glad to have you here.

Hi Eva,

What did you mean you were drifting?

So, you're coming about then?

Developing the ability to change your tacking style can improve your manoeuvrability in find your direction.

Tack to the point with the wind behind you and sail on girl!!!! We are enjoying our "Magical Mystery Tour!" tacking and coming about!!
Love,
Virginia

Who has the right of way on a port tack??? Heave to, everyone and frill onward. rikki

The starboard tranny, being on the right, has the right of way, but shouldn't take it for granted.

What is everyone talking about here?????

I am so blonde.

So what do i mean by drifting,like a boat that's not at anchor, yet hasn'traised its sails yet, Hey, I'm no sailor, just into a little symbolism, I mean like getting wishy-washy and wondering about everything, even though still dressing and poking about on the computer. Feeling i was reading the same stuff again and again and getting tired of electronic communication....feeling gnawing estrangement once more ...all this in one week, gals. one week....then I tacked and while I never started a post, decided to write this small one...and i feel better about everything. ...I think starting a post is a big step for me. It's not that I am quiet about things, but Im more reactive. That's all. No big deal...I wish I could go out in my skirt and sweatshirt, that should be no big deal too. I feel very constricted. Wow, did i say all that? I'm going to hide under my bed for a while.
hey amelie-laveau, I wish I was so blonde too

Hi all,

Eva,

The winds of grace are always blowing but we must raise our sails.
—Sri Ramakrishna

Love,
CJ

Amelie-Laveau wrote:What is everyone talking about here?????

I am so blonde.

Hi Amelie, just a lot of 'boating' language being used.

Thanks Eva, I now understand. I think we all drift about from time to time. Drifting can be nice, it slows us down and gives us time to take everything in.

It's not very easy being a blonde, it takes years of hard work to live life in a complete vacuum.


Thanks Donna,, I have never been out to sea, but I have felt a salty spray hit my face from time to time.

Hi
CJ that is a nice and appropriate quote.

and Amelie-Laveau: I tired to live life in a complete vacuum, but it was too noisy in there (ask Donna to explain that one to you)

have a good day, all of you, and the others too, I'm sailing the cds again ,
luv it
and youse,
e

A man has the right to be feminine too, there is nothing wrong in being in touch with your feminine side and if a guy wishes to allow his femininity to grow and he desires to wear a skirt or dress he should do so.

I too wish I could just wear a sweatshirt and a skirt and it being no big deal and society accepting it as normal and right.
Being a Janegirl is not a curse its a blessing a gift to enjoy and have fun with.
Clothes have no gender if it feels right and it feels good then enjoy it, it is your only life and its short, so I think one should live life to the full wearing high heels a wig and a dress is hardly the worst thing a man can do.
Its normal for a guy to love feminine things too.

Being in touch with ones femininity and allowing the woman within freedom to express herself is a good thing. Trying to stop her from living too is a bad idea as it will lead any man to madness.
Turn your boat around from the dark side and sail into the light and be a more feminine male in a skirt and enjoy the journey.
By allowing yourself to be feminine once in a while will keep you sane.
If the female part is strong then enjoy the ride its fun.
And its normal whatever that is.

Oh how I hope to see the day when a guy can wear a skirt also and no one thinks its odd.

Eva:
It is after we drift for a while, that we get our bearings to continue to navigate our lives. Enjoy the drifting. Navigation will follow and you will become more true to yourself.