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I need an anal vibrator, preferably one that does a good job of massaging the prostate. Has anyone tried one that works well for them?

Oh my God!

I thought, this should be rather interesting. I am not sure that I can officially make a recommendation but I can apply a little physics to the question.

Unlike vaginal entry, which is designed specifically for such activity, lubrication etc is relatively natural for most woman, and of course if a baby can pass through there, well, nothing that I can provide will compare.

So turn things over and we find an orifice of a different nature. The anus rather than pushing outward, is concave. It pulls inward like a good vaccum. Try this. Stand in front of the mirror and suck in your face! That's about it!

I will tell you a vendor that provides such devices. The manufacturers now make them from a very pliable, soft silicone. Very life like I understand. Not hard rubber but more of a semi-solid gel as such.

I will suggest that you visit some GAY web sites. Those guys have it all figured out you see. Hints, tips etc... There are some sites that provide valid advice. Also, the diameter that they provide for a woman's vaginal opening is often to big for anal entry. Keep that in mind...less than 1" in diameter is better for this type of activity. 1/2" or 5/8" diameter is more like it.

Care must be taken not to damage the inner canal, bleeding can lead to tumours and other things that one might not wish to deal with. STDs can be a problem if you are not careful. One cannot be too clean.

There is an idea that I came accross one day. A quality wax candle, about 10" in length with a thin taper can be warmed and shaped into a comfortable size. This way you can size your own needs. No, it will not vibrate , you will have to hum a few bars yourself.

Sorry, I choose to be rather limited on this subject.

If you send me a PM, I will provide you with the link for this product.

P.S. I went back and read some input. One person said that this device has little vibration at the tip, mostly in the base!

This might do the trick and appears to address the physics problems.

Hugs

Danielle Marie

Hi girls
Danielle. You could offer advice on the most indelicate subjects and do it in the most non offensive way. You are something else Hon. Love ya!

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Jeannie aka My little pony as Alma used to call me! What a sweetheart!

PS Go with the flow ladies. I do!

No comment!, all I'll say is I hate to get an exam at the doctors once a year.

You'll probably find more info on the web than here. Just a guess mind you.

Searching (include quotes) on Google, terms like "prostate" "vibrator" or "prostate massage" will provide a wealth of info.

And as Danielle mentioned, don't use a hard device, use something more pliable. Note that the prostate is within fingers length so you don't need anything real long either.

Ouch...........

Love Karren

I stumbled on this post and just HAD to add....

My husband has asked me to buy a strap on. I'm fine with bending our roles in the bedroom (I'm bisexual and have no trouble taking on the "masculine" role..... in fact, I enjoy it), but as a woman, I have exactly ZERO experience with anal penetration (always the "pokee" never the "poker") and I really don't want to hurt him.

He is also an anal "virgin" so any help you could give in making this a pleasurable (and not at all painful) experience would be great. My husband has fantasised about this since we met, so it's something I really want to do for him.... I'm just a little nervous. Any other SOs been in my place? Any suggestions?

PS, I really appreciated all the good info on anal toys.... Very helpful and informative.

-Tiffany

Tiffany, the best advice I can give is, go slow, not too big (diameter wise), use a pliable device, a good lubricant (KY) and a condom (for cleanliness sake).

And you may consider one which stimulates your erogenous zones as well.

WE FOUND ONE! That's all I'm saying. It's good for me AND him. YAY!

-Tiffany

Sissy: One word - Aneros (Google is your friend)

I guess my fathers Victorian attitude has rubbed off on me.
Hmmm!

Kerri