A few years back the Tri-ess chapter that I belong to started having what was called a Social Night out. They had made arrangements to hold a Social Night at a local gay bar once a month. When the night for the social came I decided to go and check it out.
To my surpise my wife was OK with my going out for the night as Nancy and with my hooking up with my girl friends. Mind you, this was the woman that often told me that if my crossdressing were to go away for good it would be OK with her.
I got dressed and made up and as I was about to leave. I called up the stairs to her that I was leaving. My wife told me to wait until she could check me out. As I stood at the bottom of the stairs and allowed my wife to look me over she told me I looked very nice and to have a good time with the girls.
I then said to her, I never in my wildest dreams thought the day would come when she would give me the OK to go out dressed as a woman knowing I was going to a gay bar and on top of that tell me to have a good time!
I did go with a nice big smile and had a very good time.
Nancy Elizabeth Lee
Life is what happens when we have made other plans.