As Lydia says, no one gives a second look at men carrying bags in continental Europe. It hasn't caught on as much here in the UK but unless the bag was especially girly looking people don't take much notice or just assume it's a 'man-bag'....which, BTW Kay, I hate that term too....just 'bag'should suffice.
Now Kay....You shouldn't have mentioned monkeys and bags....You got me looking at the Kipling shop and now I need one in my life.....grrrr
http://shop.kipling.com/shop-uk/control ... d=HANDBAGS
http://shop.kipling.com/shop-uk/control ... d=HANDBAGS
The 'Joanne S' in light brown or pink, is absolutely gorgeous, and the monkey is sooo cute! I want it and I want it now!
love,
Curly