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Hi Everyone,

I'v been doing some thinking about beard shadow,is it possible that some of that shadow, could be "gunge"??My thinking is as follows--after years of shaving, but no proper cleansing rutine, it would make sense,to me,as a GG .I am thinking about buying my husband a facial steamer. This would open up the pores, and allow any "gunge"tocome out ,this would be followed by a good quality toner, and then make up. Can but try!! and I don't think it will do any harm what do others think! ?

Will keep you posted if it does help. best wishes

Patricia(SO)

No Patricia, gunge is a UK term used to describes a runny substance, similar to paint that is often featured in game shows and charity events. It is used by covering or dropping over a victim, often inside a Gunge Tank, with the intention to cause embarrassment and make mess. In the US the term used is slime.

Beard shadow is the hair at or below the surface of the face remaining after a shave. Those who have darker hair and/or thicker hair have a more prominent 'shadow'.

One way to get rid of shadow is permanent hair removal. Or you can try covering it with an orange or yellow tinted concealer followed by an appropriately tinted foundation and powder.

Concealers most praised are Dermablend, Colortration and MAC Full Coverage, I believe.

One of our sisters stated recently that if an "in home" hair removal system is ever devised it will be invented by a crossdresser!!
As for the "shadow" my sister, Donna is correct in saying to use one of the concealers that she recommended.
I have also found that as a GG you know, good skin care is essential for all of us. Drink plenty of water, use a good cleanser, twice a day and a good moistureizer morning and at bedtime. Take good care of your skin and even shaving won't do as much damage and you may need even less of the concealer.
Thanks for your interest!
Virginia

Love the suggestions on face care. Even in guy mode my face looks better now.

I use a product called Pernox - it is a face cleanser / abradant and it gets any thing left over of (but not out) of my skin. It is also good for removing makeup in a hurry - scrubs everything (except lipstick) off. I use a toothbrush and toothpaste to get rid of the lipstick so there's no trace left over.

I would agree with Patricia to a degree. Certainly the steamer can't hurt I remember using on of those and it did make the skin feel great. I still use hot washcloths on my face prior to shaving and preparing for an outing. I think it opens the pores and allows for a closer shave. Of course a concealer is still needed.
A good cleaning can't hurt before applying and after removing makeup. ...Sallee

I use Dermabland and am very happy with it. Recently, I've been softening it by gently warming the container under a light bulb before applying, which seems to help it flow better into the pores and texture of the skin. That may not seem like a good thing, but the fact is that it will happen anyway due to your body warmth, so it's better to have it happen while you're still applying your makeup so you can see the final effect.

Also, I've been using Aveeno Positively Smooth lotion on my face for a couple of months. It promises to make hair softer and less noticeable within four weeks, and it definitely has done that, in addition to being a very nice moisturizer.

Linda

Charla - -

Have you tried using just Baby Oil (mineral oil) on a cotton ball to remove your lipstick, as opposed to a toothbrush/paste? I would think you'd tend to be more prone to having chapped lips using your method for any period of time.

Additionally, one tip that a Merle Norman makeup consultant gave me years ago was to put foundation on my lips, too, then apply lipstick. First, it helped to even-out color tone of the lips. Second, it made it easier to remove lipstick using basic soap/water/washcloth method, and no need for Baby Oil. In fact, the only time I need to use Baby Oil is for removing the waterproof mascara.

And if you want to keep your lips (and face, too!) softer and smoother - - apply lotion, such as Cetaphil (or the generic store version), morning and night; a little goes a long way. My (gay) dermatologist recommended this and I'm glad he did - the improvement in my skintone is noticeable, and yes, the acne is noticeably reduced, too. (But, maybe the reduced acne is due to menopause? hmmm... Not something you need to be worried about, though! LOL)

For those with beard shadow - - have you tried the product called Shave Secret? I've used it (don't ask where!) and I've found it tends to really soften the hair prior to shaving, allowing for a closer, smoother shave, which ultimately means less 'beard' shadow. You can find this product at WalMart in the shaving section. www.shavesecret.com


Just putting in my .02 worth as a gg!

Hi all,

I hope I'm not twisting the direction of this thread too much, it's just that my question concerns skincare, and, well there's so much good advice on that here. What I want to know is, when I shave I use aftershave once I have finished. If I'm about to dress though, that's the last thing I want to use, as it makes me smell like a guy. Does anyone know of a scentless or more femme scented alternative?

hugs,

KJ

I use Nivea's non-alcohol toner every day after washing (and occasionally shaving) my face. There's no alcohol, it smells nice without being too strong, and it keeps my face moist but not oily all day long. It's fantastic, IMHO. Look for it at Wal-Mart in the cosmetics area near the face washing products. I can't remember the exact product name right now, but it comes in a pale lavender bottle and it's lasted me for months. Hope this helps you!

Zippy,

thank you so much, I will track some down and try it!

thanks again,
KJ