Crossdressers-Haven.com

Hi all, just found this site and I'm glad I did. It's great! I've been CDing for about 3 months now. It all started about 5 years ago when I was an over the road truck driver. I was having trouble with the circulation in my legs from sitting for 600 to 800 miles per day. I read an article in a trucking mag. that talked about this problem and that the wearing of support hose would help. So I had my wife pick up a pair for me and tried them out and they worked, "but" I began to like the feel of the hose so much that I started to wear her panties as my mens briefs started to slide off my hips and would cause a doughnut look under my jeans. The panties didn't do that. And because I'm not very well endowed and the look in the mirror was quite sexy so now all my underwear are panties, (all sexy ones). My wife of 28 years has known about the hose and panties all along and has understood but one day about a month or so ago I was trying to do something to spice up our sex life a little so while she was gone to the store I dressed up in her French Maid's outfit and waited for her to come home. When she walked through the door her jaw hit the floor. I told her that I was her maid for the day. I feel we had fun with it. I waited on her hand and foot like a maid should and we had great sex later. She is still trying to get used to the idea right now but she is the greatest person in the world for me and I want to include her in every part of my life. (she just came in the door from shopping) I am not passable as I have a mustashe but I'm probably going to lose that soon and my hair is short. Just so that everyone is aware I AM NOT GAY. I just like to dress. I would like to become passable and start to go out in public but I don't think she is quite up to that yet. I want to have her read this and also check the rest of this site as I think she is capable of growing with me on this and I hope we can have a lot of fun with this. I would like to find someone in the Nashville, Tn. area who CD's and is married or attached to a female who is supportive of her SO that we could meet with and become friends and who could help her through this. Maybe they could accompany us on our first outing. She is 48 yrs. old and I am 49. Thanks in advance to everyone for your support. I think I will become a regular here.

Joe,
It's great to have you join us. You're in good company. rr

Hi Joe!

Wow, what a great story! I guess your story proves how many different ways there are to find out that one actually is a crossdresser. Didn´t you have any crossdressing thoughts before you put on your support pantyhose for the first time?



Joanna

Hi Joe,
to the forum. It's so nice when you have a wife that understands
your crossdressing needs. As far as friends in your area try looking up Tri-Ess and see if there is a support group near by. My wife learned a lot from the other wifes when we got together, she even went out in public with me with the group. So give it a try and you can always come here for a cup of coffee and ask questions. There is a spot on this forum that's just for SO and I know your wife can get a lot of help there, Carol Ann

Thanks to all of you for your warm welcomes and the good advice. And to Joanna_S, I did have some thoughts about CDing but I'd never really persued it or thought in depth about it but I'll have to admit that I do have a killer set of legs and when I started to wear the support hose my thoughts took off like a rocket. Thanks again ! Joe

Hi Joe,
I hope you will stick around a participate, but I have to pass this on to you. There is a support group in "Music City," that you and your wife should look into. www.tvals.org. They have a great web site and appear to be very active, even are or soon will be a 501,c 3 tax exempt organization. Check them out and let us know what you think. I are a "coleguge grduarte" for the former TPI now known as Tennesse Tech.
Virginia