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as a young boy developed a rather pronounced case of gynecomastia..the kids in the neighborhood started teasing me that i was turning in to a girl , go home ask mommie to buy you a bra .you should start wearing a dress ..really cruel mean spirited as kids can be ..one day some of the local bullies cornered me in a back yard ..ripped my shirt off and smeared lipstick all over my chest and over shoulders and around my back .chased me home teasing look at his pretty pink bra
..mom started to cry when she saw what they did to me ..remember how she sat me in front of her vanity and used cold cream to wipe away the mess ..i just sat there crying when i stopped crying asked her if i was turning in to a girl .. why were my breasts so much bigger than other boys ..she tried to explain ..but i just couldn't understand ..when i asked her if i was going to have to start wearing a bra .. she just hugged me and said she was so sorrie this was happening to me .. just give it time and they will go away ..
became really quiet and withdrawn mom started buying me baggie clothes to hide my chest ..
on the first day of school some of the same group of bullies pushed me in to one of the bathrooms and roughed me up ripped off my clothes wrestled me into a bra and pink dress yanked down my shorts and put pink panties on me ..one of their girl friends rolled panty hose up my legs and put make up on my face ..tied little pink ribbons in my hair.. they even put little pink shoes on my feet .. ..dragged me out in the hall way and everybodie laughed.. he's a girl ..look at his tits .. he's too cute to be a boy ..finally one of the teachers broke it up . took me down to the office and they called mom to come get me ..she was so sad when she saw me.. just yelled at them .. how could you let this happen and walked me out to the car ..i cried all the way home ..
i was so embarrassed when mom tried to clean off my face i ran in to my room and just laid on the bed crying.. finally mom came in and held me told me every thing would be ok ..she sat me in front of her vanity again ..when i saw my reflection could barely talk .. mom look what they did .. i look like a girl.. they made me put on a bra now every bodie knows ..i started to cry .....when she unbuttoned the dress and saw the underwear they had put me in ..she got really mad and called the school and yelled at them for a long time ..i just sat there in a dress, wearing girls undies looking in the mirror ..i guess at some point i pulled the dress back up on my shoulders and went out and sat next to mom as she cried ..she just hugged me told me every thing would be all right ..then she did a funnie thing and buttoned me back up.. i just sat there while she cried and told me how sorrie she was ..i kept asking her if i was turning in to a girl .. finally she got frustrated at me and said no.. if you were a girl none of this wouldn't be happening now would it and sent me to my room.. i remember laying on the bed listening to her cry and thinking maybe i should have been a girl .. ....and guess at that point my life changed
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some times hard roads take us to beautiful places
happy to be the girl i am today ..b cup breasts and all
peace out be pretty ...chena ..

Hi Chena,

Wow, what a story! You have done well not to carry that trauma with you.

In a former life, I was involved in an insurance case where the mother asked me if the insurance would cover the breast removal for her son who was at the time, fourteen. I was almost in tears as she related the story to me, much like yours. I went back to our home office and presented the case. One of the underwriters had the audacity to actually laugh. I took him into an empty office and "splained" things to him. When we came out he was the biggest advocate for our paying the claim at 100% which we did. I have often thought back on that and have come to the conclusion that Virginia, unbeknowst to me was in that melee with both high heels!!!! I talked with the mother about a year later and she said her son was now "just one of the boys" and the Dr's had removed about 6 - 8 pounds of tissue from his chest!

I hope you will stay and share with us.

Virginia

Welcome to the forum Chena, or is it Terri?

Hi Chena,

I was so sad reading your story, but the best I can say is in this forum you are accepted already for who you are. You will get support and kind words because of your gifts.

We look forward to hearing from you.

DonnaT wrote:Welcome to the forum Chena, or is it Terri?

morning .. sorrie about the confusion.. don't really post much .. was very difficult for me to write about that time in my life .. guess i just got lost in my feelings and signed my real name will post.. chena.. from now on
thank you for your kind words

even the darkest clouds
have silver linings ..
helped me become
the woman i am today ..

be kind to your friends ..
chena

While your story is definitely upsetting and saddening, I can't bring myself to think that I'd have actually loved to have gynecomastia. The fact that i'm more of a TS than a crossdresser migh be at it again.

Anyhow. Thanks for sharing such a touching story with us.

I read an article one day that said that the percentage of young males with some form of gynecomastia is approaching 50%. The article contributed the rise due to Hormones getting into the ground water, and the food supply.
Surgery for this is become more common. It is a form of liposuction, where they go in and remove the breast tissue. The skin then almost instantly shirnks, so that the chest area is almost flat.

Chena what happened to you was a form of sexual assault. It's too bad no one was prosecuted.

Breast reduction surgery for men is one of the more common forms of cosmetic surgery. I was very glad when I read that as I got teased some also. It didn't develop till my mid 20's and quite possibly was due to smoking way too much pot. For a long time I was pretty embarrassed by this but I go to the gym a lot now and have noticed that a lot of the more muscular guys have a lot of development in this area. So I don't worry about it now. But those kids were real creeps. It would take a lot of spiritual strength for me to forgive them for something like that. I still have some pretty intense revenge fantasies about stuff far less traumatic than that.

Absaroka

If it is any help, polices in schools today is different. The Dallas school district has a zero tolerance toward behavior like this. Those kids would have been expelled for the rest of the year, which means they failed that grade and would have to take it over at a diffenert school, as they would not be allowed back into that school. Also the school would have to given Chena free counsoling and the whole school would also get counsoling and a talk too about behavior like that and what happens to the kids like that as a warning.
Something similar to this happen last year and this is what the school had to do to keep the parents of the child from sueing their pants off.

Sorry Chena that it happen to you. I remember when I was in Jr/Sr high School how the bullies used to get away with just about anything, espcially if they were star jocks.

A teacher's aid in a local school district teased a boy walking in the hall of the school while with his class. She grabbed his chest and made a rather lewd comment. The District had the good sense not to tolerate that type of behavior and she was actually arrested by the police.

Finally, a Schoolboard that makes sense!

A sad way to become a CD. It is nice when it is voluntary and enjoyable.

When I was 13 I suddenly got enlarged nipples and a soft fleshy breast tissue. I was horrified and went to my doctor. He was quite rude and dismissive and I walked away angry with him. I was fearful that I would turn into a girl. I looked in Sear's catalogues at the bra advertisements and discouvered how lucious and sexual they looked. I began to fantisize about having breasts. I finally sneaked out one night and stole a bra off a clothing line several blocks from my home. When I put it on it was DEVINE.. I wanted real breasts from then on.

Hi Anne, to the forum.

Introduce yourself in the New Members section.

Hi Anne,

Did you ever follow through and have augmentation surgery? I'm considering doing just that but a great deal of fear is holding me back

Shauna