To all the GG's out there.
I am thinking of looking for a job where I could work while enfemme as in a womans dress store. Putting aside your relationship with a CD'er, as a GG how would you feel or react to being waited on by a Crossdresser. Would you feel uncomfortable, uneasy or refuse to shop in that kind of atmosphere. Be totally honest with your answers.
CharLee
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I would be very open to the idea, especially if it was apparent you had a good eye for fashion. A benefit of having a CD as an SA is you get an opinion from both perspectives.
But, I am very supportive of CDers. I do not know how a GG might react if she has not been exposed to the lifestyle. Hopefully, she would feel the same way I do.
But, I am very supportive of CDers. I do not know how a GG might react if she has not been exposed to the lifestyle. Hopefully, she would feel the same way I do.
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Thank you Bonnie for your response. That is one of the reasons I would like to work enfemme. I know from a mans perspective what I think looks good on a woman and what looks sexy. I want women to look appealling to men, someone to be desired, and with no offense intended, not the sloppy jeans and baggy tops with flip flops that so many women are wearing today
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To be totally honest with you, I would not be happy to go into a clothes shop and have a male SA try and tell me what I should be wearing in order to look desirable, sexy or appealing to men 
I would think that would make me feel very uncomfortable and patronised.
If I am after a casual outfit that might include flip flops, baggy top or sloppy jeans...then that is what I want to buy, I would be upset if someone tried to dissaude me from buying them.
How would you feel if you were buying some enfemme clothes for yourself and a female SA tried subtly or unsubtly to encourage you to buy something she considered 'sexy' on you....a nice tight white t-shirt and ripped jeans? A firefighter outfit?
Putting that aside, I couldn't care less about an SA being CD. If I ask for their opinion (which is something I never do) I would hope their answer would be more fashion or style based rather than their personal ideas of what is 'sexy' or not.
I would think that would make me feel very uncomfortable and patronised.
If I am after a casual outfit that might include flip flops, baggy top or sloppy jeans...then that is what I want to buy, I would be upset if someone tried to dissaude me from buying them.
How would you feel if you were buying some enfemme clothes for yourself and a female SA tried subtly or unsubtly to encourage you to buy something she considered 'sexy' on you....a nice tight white t-shirt and ripped jeans? A firefighter outfit?
Putting that aside, I couldn't care less about an SA being CD. If I ask for their opinion (which is something I never do) I would hope their answer would be more fashion or style based rather than their personal ideas of what is 'sexy' or not.
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I agree with Curly. I can not ever remember asking a SA for advice or asking one how I look! I've been dressing to be appealing to men since I was 15 years old.....which then changed to dressing for myself.....which is where I currently am. Being a fashion junkie is one of my most favorite hobbies. Bring me the clothes, stay out of my way, ring up the sale. I've been dressing myself since I was 6. You could be Robbie the Robot for all I care. 
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Ok first of all I would never tell anyone how to dress. If you wanted a casual outfit I would show you what we had. I've never been in a store where anyone tried to sell me anything I was not interested inCurly(SO) wrote:To be totally honest with you, I would not be happy to go into a clothes shop and have a male SA try and tell me what I should be wearing in order to look desirable, sexy or appealing to men
I would think that would make me feel very uncomfortable and patronised.
If I am after a casual outfit that might include flip flops, baggy top or sloppy jeans...then that is what I want to buy, I would be upset if someone tried to dissaude me from buying them.
How would you feel if you were buying some enfemme clothes for yourself and a female SA tried subtly or unsubtly to encourage you to buy something she considered 'sexy' on you....a nice tight white t-shirt and ripped jeans? A firefighter outfit?
Putting that aside, I couldn't care less about an SA being CD. If I ask for their opinion (which is something I never do) I would hope their answer would be more fashion or style based rather than their personal ideas of what is 'sexy' or not.
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Re: Working enfemme
Is that really possible? Getting a job where you could work as a female? I would love to have some more info.CharLee wrote:To all the GG's out there.
I am thinking of looking for a job where I could work while enfemme as in a womans dress store. Putting aside your relationship with a CD'er, as a GG how would you feel or react to being waited on by a Crossdresser. Would you feel uncomfortable, uneasy or refuse to shop in that kind of atmosphere. Be totally honest with your answers.
CharLee